I've been in a relationship for about six months now. I honestly believe he doesn't care about me at all, though all of his friends swear otherwise. I really do like him but I feel like I'm just there because he has no other options. Whenever he makes comments like "you're the most interesting girl I've dated" or such I feel like I'm then being compared to everyone else he has ever been with. And these comparisons frighten me terribly. Here he is with all the experience in the world, charming but brutally honest and blunt. All while I'm just this timid and self contained girl. We have yet to do anything sexual, he tries and asks for it frequently but I'm really scared because I have no experience and I don't want my failures to be compared to his better memories. I also don't want to be just another one of his tallies. I want it to be something important and memorable, like how I've always imagined it to be. I'm scared that if I don't give in he'll leave, but I don't want to do something I'll soon regret. I don't know how to tell him...
blueoracle blueoracle
22-25, F
2 Responses Sep 1, 2014

Sweetie do what your heart tells you to do. That's what my ex did & now we ain't together

When a guy says "you're the most interesting girl...", that typically is a good thing. But if you're really sensing he doesn't care, perhaps there is a reason. But it could also be just your insecurities talking. Maybe this man genuinely likes you and you're too scared to accept it or just think he's too good compared to you. That isn't the case, ever.