What to Do??

I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and we have a 1 year old son together. I got pregnant when we had only been going out for 3 months so everything was very rushed. Sometimes I wonder if we would still be together if I hadn't of gotten pregnant. A few months ago he randomly out of the blue told me he didn't know if he felty the same way about me that he used to so we broke up. Two days later he was saying that he wanted to try and make it work so I said we could and for 2 months he kept screwing with my head telling me he loved me and wanted us to be a family but then I wouldn't hear from him for a few days. he let me look after our son all bymyself and he never took him. he never gave me any money for our son, i was doing it all alone. then he wanted to move back in and i let him because i want our son to have a family but then i found out he had slept with someone else! Now i don't know whether i trust him, he goes away fishing and leaves me at home with our son. I am scared to be on my own, even though I can manage well. I guess i just feel that no one would want to be with me now that i am a single mother.
tweety86 tweety86
22-25, F
2 Responses Sep 15, 2007

Bella Is exactly correct. Great advice.

That really sucks. I wish I could give you a hug! There are plenty of great guys out there who would love to adopt your son! I know that if you untangle yourself from your ex, you will eventually meet some of them. Being a single Mom does not mean you are damaged. I promise. A good man who loves you will love your son. Be strong, and be patient. You and your son deserve the best!