2nd Wife Issues

My husband was married for 31 years his Ex. Wanted a divorce. When I came into the picture he was in the last stages of getting his Divorced finalized. He kept our dating a secret(I felt this was wrong, but I respected his decision) when I finally met his 30 year old twin sons we were engaged. Sons not too happy. We got married they were both unable to attend (out of state wedding) However, my husband's Mom & siblings were present. 4 months later his son was getting married & I was not invited . It continues on & on they send Christmas gift to his Dad ex. Nice photo book of grandchild.. I think it would have been nice if they wrote the gift was for us? Not sure how to tell Son's they should treat us as a couple. .!?
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Jan 12, 2013