To Wait, Or Not to Wait...

So my boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year now. We both love each other immensely and we know that we are going to get married. That is not a question, we know we are. If there is such a thing as soul mates, that would be us. We are both Christians. We meet at a Bible camp. So, we both think that we should wait for sex. And so far, we have. It's not like we don't do anything else, mind you. We like to play around, so to speak. Manual sex, maybe to start oral sex...(I've giving him head once, but he wants it again, and i think i will)...but it just seems like...we're in the transition. I was never going to go as far as i have with him. Do i regret it? No, not really. But now. the question is, do we actually wait for sex, or should we just do it. Cause we both want to. A lot. But i think that i would feel so guilty if we did, so i don't' know if we should just stick to our plan or not. Is it really that important to wait? We're going to get married in 2 years. We're both just so confused right now, and don't know what to do.   :(

jaisikae jaisikae
26-30, F
1 Response Aug 9, 2007

You need to email or message me. Please. I just gave my virginity to my future husband in January and I think about it all the time. We are also Christians. In short: please wait. Stop playing with fire. Manual sex, oral can't keep doing that and not expecting it to happen. It will happen. Please wait. If you don't, it's not the end of the world. But I regret it. It's also hard to stop. And there are so many other things I have learned that I would love to share with you two.