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My wife and i quit having sex a few yrs ago, She just quit . She recently met a woman who is very interested in knowing her better. This woman phoned me at work and asked to meet me privately. She wanted to ask my help. She wanted my Ok on her seducing my wife. She knew my wife and I had given up on having sex and she was very attracted to my wife who is very fem in face and figure.
. She was willing to have sex with me as long as I was willing to let her ask my wife to go away with her for a weekend. She had already been wooing my wife with expensive gifts. I also knew my wife was bored with life and needed some excitement. I agreed and she and i met at her place and had sex. It was just that.. We kissed and I undressed her and we had sex.
She asked my wife to go away with her the next weekend, Of course my wife did not know that I already knew this would happen. I hoped it would al work out fine since my wife and I were not getting along. My wife had never been away with a woman before. I found out later they shared a bed . She surprised my wife by telling her that she loved her.. It was my wfes introduction to lesbian love. I think it was a good deal. I am also learning more about my wifes feelings.about sex. .
This lasted about two yrs , My wife told me to get rid of the lesbian .she had become demanding  and wanted my wife evry weekend
Also my wife  wanted my sex, she wanted to settle down  so I got her pregnant , The lesbian left when the baby was born  IWe are not in touch with her
anthony2001 anthony2001 61-65, M 44 Responses May 12, 2011

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I think that letting your wife have a female lover is good as long as she takes care of your needs also. I have been in 3 somes and 4 somes where my girl was involved with another women and I didn't feel any jealousy.

Lies are good for marriage...sometimes... :-)

Haha! Mission accomplished. This story sounded so James Bond-y!

A very interesting story

so its been a while hows everything going?

My wife asked me to get rid of the lesbian She got demanding so I got rid of her

ok so whats next?

She had the baby then our sex life resumed its rare occasions with other men occasionaly


It is a good situation for me I get sex from the lez and she tells me what she is doing to my wife I was surpised that my wife would have sex with the les but she is Meanwhile my wife has not cut me off completely Sometimes I get it
I would like to see the lez go down on my wife but that can not happen

It is a new situation for me

if you want to spice up your marrage maby you could get another woman involved as long as your wife went along with it.

My wife is ashamed of going out with this les but seems very attracted to her The les is very much like a man and behaves like one when with my wife and is quite aggresssive They would not go for three

did you ever watch them together? my girlfriend was bi and it was ALOT of fun believe me lol

No but I did watch another couple of women a few yrs later One licked the other so long that she had trouble getting up

Wow, now that's a good story however I kinda believe you should have talked to you wife about your attraction prior to having the affair. But I'm glad that it worked out for the better for yah. good luck with the new baby. :)

I was not sure how my wife would react to hearing the les was wanting to trade info about my wifes moods for fixing my sexx needs or trying to

I also found out that when they were at the hotel much time was spent with the lez kissing my wife all over starting with her lips and gradually removing her clothes as she held my wife down She had also given my wife glasses of wine More or less what a man might do until she was naked

Since their relationship lasted two years, it must mean that your wife became less passive and have her pleasure too. Do you have details of how she reciprocated to the lesbian love making?

My wife only enjoys sex when she is in control The les got what she wanted at first since she took my wife by surprise then my wife atarted objecting to what she wanted her to do hat is when the les phoned me for help in seducing my wife She wanted to know her mood swings and if I was giving my wife sex at home In return she told me how my wife behaved when they wre alne My wife would hit the les at times but the les was stronger It was an odd relationship

My wife says she had no idea what would happen at the hotel She had never been away with a less It vwas quite a while before I heard details My wife was lead to believe they would have two rooms but it was only a big room with a double bed The less said they were full up then took my wife to the bar where they drank wine The less complimented my wife on how she looked and her figure When they got upstaitrs again the less asked my wife to shower with her but my wife said No. My wife reluctantly got undressed as the less kissed her and undid my wifes bra My wife did not know what to do after the wine The less got my wife naked and put her on the bed and kissed her deeply while feeling her tats My wife gave up ob<x>jecting and had her first oral given to her It was fingers and mouth on my wife so she closed her eyes and accepted it That is what happened I think The less told me that my wife had a soft sexy body and a wet pxxy

I liked your story. Can you please tell us how that hotel escapade went. What did the less tell you?

I did find out later that the les kissed my wife on her lips almost endlessly then roceeded to undres my wife and kissed her on her **** and bellybutton and mound and bush and used her fingers going deep then her tongue
The les was flat chested so my wifes large **** tuned her on

What do you mean you gave up on the Lez? You need to stay in touch to keep up about what your wife is doing and enjoying. Have you thought about the Lez not telling you the full story. I bet your wife has given the lez oral sex or why would the lez continue to go out with your wife? You are not leading all us horny men along are you?

The Les does the kissing as sh efeels my wife up My wife is excited but wants her to stop but she continues They are on the bed The les slides my wifes panties down and off My wife has a good bush
The les is also naked between my wifes legs The les has her fingers in my wife The les licks my wifes vag and licks and licks until my wife moans and moves her hips, This is the action s it was told to me by the les a few days later

It has continued on. I asked my wife how that first night with the lesbian went. in the expensive hotel. My wife got all embarrassed ,which she never does. I gather she had no real sexual feelings for the leesbian who more or less took over and sort of raped my wife to her embarasment I think it was her intro to oral sex She will not speak more about it. but she stil goes away with the lesbian occasionally .<br />
I gave up on the lesbiain since she is skinny and tight and not fun I already know what they do. to get it off.

Julie and myself lived in Miami and i went to New Orleans one year with some friends. I met a very cute girl while i was drunk and forgot all about asking her to visit me in Miami trying to get in her pants ! Julie and i have done all kinds of kinky things and sex was getting old with her?A few months later this girl shows up at our door while we were eating dinner! Julie asked who is she ? Well i told her the truth about meeting Mindy in new Orleans months before.Mindy had no place to spend the night and she stayed with us. After a while the two of them started to get along better. I asked Julie if she might have a 3 way with this girl? She said we might ! I got the other girl on the side and told her that Julie has never been with a female and try to kiss her if she wants .A few minutes later this girl made her move and Julie kissed her back! Julie and i have not had sex in weeks at this point and i knew she had to be ready . We were drinking wine and took our clothes off to get in the hot tub . The kissing and licking did not stop and Julie asked if I wanted this girl? I oh yea<br />
All 3 of us ended up inour bed with her licking Julie and Julie watching me enter this girl from behind . She stayed 2 weeks or so and this woke up our sex life .After this Julie and myself would make a game out of sex . Go to a nice bar and she would ask cute girls to come home with us and i would ask guys to come home with us to make Julie happy with 2 guys .

It surprised me how my wife got used to les love then she wanted to control the les and they battled I used the les and stayed out of the catfight My wife can be a fighter as the les found out


I know , are you pure? You threw the stome

Thanks. Actualy am not cut off . My wife seems to be confused about her sexuality but I know from her history that she is not a les. T his will wear off. in time.

i just have to say that my husband has not had sex with me in 7 years (his choose not mine) and i have offered to try anything he wants all he says is i dont want to talk about it and no i havent cheated on him but i really feel like it some times.

Women need sex as much as most men , maybe it is time to cheat

With everything going on these days I am afraid to. I even moved to Texas to save our marriage he said he would find a job where he could be home but he did not he now lives 4 hours north and comes here every 2 weeks and when he is here he spends most of his days at his dads . I have no family here just my kids no friends here every one is up north can I please get some advise

Yes by private message

Go with it both ways. Enjoy being with your wife as much as you can doing whatever will please her, and also with the gf. Keep in touch with her. Maybe you could join both at some point, and have nsa pleasures with them. Keep us posted on your progress.

It would not work if my wife knew

How do you know if the new lady in your life is telling you the truth or make belief?<br />
Also how do you know that she is not telling your wife what both of you get up to?

I wanted to find out what she did to my wife and how my wife liked it i know it was my wifes first time at getting sucked

I agree, will do

Wow. This is really hot! Thanks for sharing. You mentioned your wife normally likes control in the bedroom. Have you guys ever played around with male chastity? It's a fantasy of mine to have my girl lock up my manhood in a c0ck cage and keep the key, then while I'm locked up at home, have her go out with a a girl (or guy) for dancing, dinner, sex, whatever. Hearing about it later would be amazing.

It is true and unusual. My wife went to school with the lez long before I met her. Maybe it started then I am cose to bot f them but not togther. My wife does not know I fxxx her lez friend in return for hearing how she made out <br />
My wife will not accept oral from me but obviously enjoys it with her ffirend. I am restricked to the normal penis in vag thing . <br />
She does not like massage except from the lez<br />
In a way my wife lives a double life. <br />
In a way it is family life. Sounds like you need a friend to help you. <br />
Yes, I have a short one and the lez has long fingers and tongue. I am not allowed to use my fingers.

I got a ***** from Uk for my wife. For the first time, she enjoyed it a couple of times but got fed up. She enjoys fingers but says she she needs a warm tongue on her xxxxx which I cant really do. I will be really glad to see a woman go down on her with her tongue. I'd love to see her excitement and satisfaction when she reaches her ******....I love my wife and wud do anything that pleases her except putting my own tongue there...

It is fascinating to hear what the les can do with my wife

Lucky Bstrd... Looks like a fantasy bro. doubt if it really happened..still if its true, its amazing. Sometimes we men dont know what really triggers a woman. I am married for the last 25 years and I am yet to really know when my lady gets turned on. We watch **** and she really likes the one's with some massage to begin with. so we have made it our favourite foreplay routine. I begin with massaging her head, neck and all the way down to her xxxxx all the time watching the films. she also gets turned on by seeing a big man with a big xxxx and although I admit for not having such a big one try to keep her interested as long as i can..<br />
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in your case, ur girl needs some more attention on her xxxx and I am sure u dont (like me) enjoy going down on her. The smell and the mess down there somehow appals me and i cant do it. The same with ********. I dont like it either. But may be our wives want oral sex! so i might b interested in finding out if there is a women who can take care of me and my wife so that everything remains in the family....very convenient..

Convenient , HaHaHa!

No I have never gone down on my wife because she stops me Yes I want to

Once your wife is on lesbian, it is difficult to come to normal mode. You are very lucky that her gf offered herself to you to replace your wife. If you want your wife back, go for oral, lots of stimulation before the act itself. This is because your wife is a passive partner. Try it when you have the chance

I wanted to know what turned my wife on

That sounds sick to me. Hearing about what the lesbian did with your wife.

Thanks, it is stimulating to realize that my wife and this woman get along so well and that she excites my wife in ways that I cannot. I know thatthe first weekend she went away was quite an eyeopener for my wife. She had no previous knowledge of lesbian sex. The lesbian is a sominant woman and took charge.It was a big adjustment for my wife who likes control in sex. There were fights, physcal L as and verbal . The lesbian is thin and wiry and capable. My reward was mostly hearing later about what went on. as the lesbian got her way.

well, iam quite impressed about your personal attitude towars the freedom of change that you have given to your wife. the sexual reorientation and act are all ba<x>sed on psychological thinking....its all in the mind. In your kind of an experiment it can revitalize your sex life to a great extent...but you got to be very that all three of you dont get into any kind of conflict wiyh each other....till then it sounds pretty smooth. world is full of surprises.

It is a deal where I let her take my wifer for a weekend and I learn whast they did and if my wife liked it. The gf makes herdelf available to me as we talk about my wife. I need to kmow if I might get my wife back or does she prefer women

There is no conflict so far Of course my wife does not know the les and I meet for talks and sex I like the les, she is straightforward with me She knows my needs She now tells me how she is doing with my wife My wife often gives her a tough time depending on what she wants to do with her

I don't get the part about you having sex with the girlfriend.... kinda selfish, right? she digs your wife and cynically you both trade out sex to get what you want (you out of the relationship and her, her conquest?) <br />
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That is some messed up stuff there if you ask me... If a woman came to me and asked if she could have an affair with my wife, I think I'd tell her "you'll have to ask my wife." not "if I can pork you, you can take your shot."<br />
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But, it sounds like it is working for all of you! have at it!

It started out just the les and my wife but my wife had never even met a les and she was reluctant but the les made a big fuss overher and my wife was curious so she tried it and liked all the affection the les gave her I ended up horny , no sex so the les offered her body to get me on her side It worked

To all Yes, it is to my advantage. I get sex from the lesbian as well as a details on what is going on with my wife. and how she reacts to the lesbian . It sdoes not always workout with my wife and the lesbian and sometimes I get her when she is hot and back home.

Ya, but she did. I say run with it, make it your advantage

It is fun while it lasts

Better her than me. I'm in NO WAY attracted to lesbians or the thought of intimacy with them.

Oddly my wife never was but is mow. Personally I like straight forwrd man woman sex which can be tough to find

Well, while sex of any kind is rare these last few months at my house (very single), that is my preference as well.

We were just a married couple mostly bored then my wifes gf from yrs ago, showed up and took over It spices life My wife enjoys the attention but not the sex with the les who brings her expensive presents and showers her with affection

Holy cow you went along with this. I gess I would have to only I am the girl. Can't put my face down their. So it might not work. Take care

Thanks It is exciting to put my face there amid the bush and find what is there

Others dont think so.. It realy happened

what a bunch of BS

They will want yr wife more than you. It would be an education for you and yr wife

I actualy gave up on mine quite a few yrs ago. She and I go oyr own ways but sometimes our paths cross like this lesbian but my wife does not know that I know what is going on. and am part of it . My wife is not a true lesbian but enjoys the attention and admiration and presents.

Actualy the lesbian conned my wife into going away with her. My wife expected two rooms or at least two beds. My wife was too embarassed to admit this and got introduced to lesbian sex . My wife is untra fem , the lesbian is quite masculine in build. She introduced my wife to oral sex, which she did onmy wife . My wife is very passive so just lay there with her legs apart. while the lesbian enjoyed my wifes big boobs. as well.

Sounds like the best of all possible worlds there.

She might also suit yr wife.

Maybe I should borrow the lady friend for a few weeks. LMBO