I have been married for 35 years and have been basically sexless relationship for the last 10+. I would love to have an affair, but my questions is- why do I find someone to have an affair with? I work in a small family owned company. I am overweight, although in the last year I have lost 55 pounds. I am very well known in my town, as is my family so trolling bars is not an option. Where can I find someone who will treat me like I want to be treated? I just want to feel wanted.