I am a happily married woman for the past 12 years. Before my current marriage I was involved with a man for six years. The reasons why we never married are complicated, but after we split, I met my current husband. I guess part of me still felt a connection to the old flame. He recently contacted me, and we started communicating through emails and texts. He says he still has feelings for me, and the previous complications that prevented us from marrying are no longer there. However, I have built a good relationship and life with my husband, and I am not interested in tearing that up. I am happy to stay in touch with the old flame, but don't really see it going anywhere. I wonder if this is considered cheating?