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Blind Fantasy

I was always a confident person till few months ago. My life changed drastically in more ways than one. I went from being independant, fun, wild, risk taker and all round good hearted person to being alone. My attitude to life hasn't changed but my views on it have. You see i Iost my sight 3 months ago. And now I'm struggling not coming to terms with it but peoples attitudes to me. I still want to do all the things I planned to do and more. People seem to think because I'm blind that the rest of my body doesn't work. And trust me that is not the case. I've always had a submissive side and been in that kind of situation in the past I'd like to go back to it. But guys see me differently now and I don't know how to change it.
Pleasuredome Pleasuredome 36-40, F 7 Responses Aug 3, 2012

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Is is true my senses are stronger. I haven't slept/made Love with anyone since Going blind. I've only kissed one person and they are shocked how sensual it is. they said it is more fascinating and intriguing. music is my life cause it's the one time I can just be me. Before I came blind risk takin came in many forms of wys from eveday things to sexual fantasies so I'd be here all day if I had to name them. But sexually in the past I've been in a sub/Dom relationship and I Enjoyed it. To now being celebate cause guys can't see past my blindness for want of a better phrase it's frustrating.

I have a fond memory of hearing a girl friend changing her clothes while waiting for her. It was very exciting in that I was attempting to guess as to what she was wearing.

I'm curious, what would it be like for you to hear the same (your lover changing their clothing)

It's sexy, sensual. Gives me a thrill of ecstasy. I'm never going to see what there wearing but the thought of undressing each item discovering what thy are one by one, the touch of the material on my fingers. The caress of catching your partners naked skin on my finger tips is a turn on when all you have I touch.

Is is true my senses are stronger. I haven't slept/made Love with anyone since Going blind. I've only kissed one person and they are shocked how sensual it is. they said it is more fascinating and intriguing. music is my life cause it's the one time I can just be me. Before I came blind risk takin came in many forms of wys from eveday things to sexual fantasies so I'd be here all day if I had to name them. But sexually in the past I've been in a sub/Dom relationship and I Enjoyed it. To now being celebate cause guys can't see past my blindness for want of a better phrase it's frustrating.

Must say, I like your attitude



What types of risks did you take prior to losing your sight? Any that you'd like to try?

Thankyou x

You just have to show them! My Grandfather was blind but that never stopped him he married had 6 children,was a concert pionist but he also built his own bungalow,could ***** an engine down and re-build and a gardener par exellent but he a;lso loved playing crown bowls.Just shows you what you can do but you have to show these Guys YOU CAN!If you n eed a friend you have one!

I am it's people attitudes to me that have changed and that's the bit I can't understand. As I'm still the same funny person with the sadistically challenged sense of humour. But still people treat me differently. Guys especially. I don't understand it at all. I'm still me.