I have a very strong libido, which is fine because there are ways and means to have it satisfied, even when single, as I am right now. However, I'm getting to the stage where being a casual playmate or reliant on toys isn't enough. The problem arises when my sex drive is so constant that I feel driven to placate it and yes, it does sometimes feel like a separate being from me. I do so love that build up of desire and then the deep pleasure it gives when fulfilled, but it can also stop me from developing the emotional side of myself. I freely admit that I am an indulgent woman. I like pleasure, who doesn't, but how do I find the balance between giving into my needs and building something more substantial, more emotionally as well as physically fulfilling?