The Touch Of A Man

I would just love to feel the touch of a man again. It's been so long that I think I forgot just how good it feels to have that soft, strong hand touching me. The arm around me and hand on my hip is the touch I miss most of all. It's a protective thing - I guess. Not really sure but boy do I remember that feeling excellent to just feel that affection. Yes, it's affection that I miss. The feeling when you touch someone and they touch you back and you are both on the same page. The feeling of the touching of making love and the feeling of the affectionate touch while you cuddle in bed and watch tv together. It's been a couple of years since I have been that close to anyone and I really miss it terribly. Beyond words. I go up to people and just hug them because I miss being close to people. I just want to be close to a warm body as much as possible. Maybe more with the right person will come soon. I look forward to feeling the closeness of the intimacy of it all again.
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53 Responses Oct 4, 2012

Well I So want to touch the Breasts of a Woman..

Real Breasts of Course.

O would kiss and cress u nice and slow lady

Agreed....even at my age there is nothing more that turns me on then a man I want touching me....that excitement will never ever leave me....when his hand brushes up against my arm it doesn't even have too be a sexual move it could just be his finger brushing up against my arm...that's it...jump on him city!!! lol

even at my age words cannot describe the feeling of a touch from a hot man, the caress, his strong body on top of yours, the passion, the emotions running through your bodies, the heat, the excitement of enjoy each other...if you do not feel these things then you really need too take a step back, if you are only having sex for a purpose or agenda then its time too go...

Here's looking at you and hopping comes your way real soon.

Being in physical contact with another person's body is one of the most sensual experiences two people can have. It's a display by each party of affection for the other, but also it is an acknowledgement of trust that each has for the other. Physical contact with a partner is something that "feels familiar" and "comfortable." It brings "good feelings" to the two involved. It provides warmth on a chilly night. It provides the physical contact two people need to "feel" that they are appreciated, and perhaps desired. Physical contact between two people can be not only a expression of love, but it can also be a expression friendship. It could be an answer to desire, mostly emotional, but also for love. Physical contact between two people is used as a stepping stone for helping a relationship grow. Sadly, without the personal contact of two people sharing one space, there can not be presumed safety, anticipated feelings, a desire of both parties to share more of themselves with the other.

I can really relate to your story, it is exactly like mine

Hugs hugs hugs hhhhhhhhhhhhhhuuuuuuuuuuuugggggggggggs

U r most welcome anytime u need a hug i'll be der:-) pleasant day

loved this you'll get him totally understand you it sucks.

I just wanted to say that I really appreciate all your all you did for me and my family DR. You really helped me through what I think was the most difficult time of my life. Your kindness and caring goes way beyond the products you sell.and I hope that I will someday meet you. You will always be in my prayers and I will never forget what you have done for me for bringing back my happiness and healing my sick child.

i am 33 i have never been close to a guy other then on skype...:) i have never exprienced it... other then him... so life has frozen there... i wait for him endlessly... cuz no matter how much i try i cant get msyelf surrender to anyone... unless god himself comes down and pushes me to it...i miss his hugs and tender words and kisses so much... but things have gone far... but for thoe who dont have such restriction... wats stopping u to go and hug and give urself and get loved. or is it that its a punishment of a sin we committed and forgot:)

Your story could have been written by so many of us....i long to
Kiss again some days its like a physical ache....i am in an intolerable situation of my own making and i want so much to break free...feel your pain...sending u cyber hugs...not really what u need tho eh!

Let me know when you could use a good Mexican hug

I know how you feel. I really do

I know how you feel!! I feel the same way, and im married!!

It's been more years than I care to admit of having true affection from a man.
I so miss a man's touch, his closness to me, to feel love again.
I wonder will it ever happen for me again, to be in love with someone, and someone who love me too??

5 years long a man I can not wait months with out a nice lady to feel, cuddle etc.. need to go out more often x

i know exactly what you mean.... been 5 years for me.... most of my life alone...

Love thyself. Then love will come to you. The more depressed you are, the more you will repel real love. Love is literally all around you. Intimacy doesn't neccessarily mean love, so if it sex your after, go get some! Nothing wrong with that, as long as your careful about it and safe ;-) plenty of guys out there!

The only contact I've gotten was a hug. And it wasn't even intimate.
I crave it do badly. Just wanna know how it feels.

Girl you need to learn how to live with supporting yourself, because if u dont than one day u will find a man and if they leave u will be depressed again. one day the guy will come for u and for now, get a dog or a cat

But dose it mean there are no real men like me around again? Baby I feel u so badly so come to me

you just read my mind <3

thats what i'm talking about . there are a lot of thug/hardcore females out there its about time i hear a woman acting like a woman. i like to hold my woman to sleep, and while we watch tv, i like to make love and not **** all the time, i love the feeling i get when i express passion towards a real woman, it satisfy me, by satisfing her

I know what you mean, I miss it also
I do the same thing as you, hug as much people i can

I sure know how you feel because I crave to touch, hold and be with a female. Hoping you find someone who you can be happy wiyh.

Hold yourself closely!! YOU deserve it!!!

I know how you feel. You'll get your chance again.

Sadly I suspect many share this particular affliction.

I know how you feel. I advise you get a massage from a male massage therapist. Just a massage of course.

I'm so lucky to have a beautiful girl to snuggle with everynight. I wasn't always so lucky though!

Trust me I do:) I have a really good feeling we'll be together for ever. I always had a bad feeling about my ex's so hope we are:)

I know what you mean. It does not have to lead anywhere, just holding hands or a touch on the shoulder. Perhaps a warm embrace. I hope you can find someone you can share these things with. Good luck

Just keep hugging and the feeling will hit you when you least expect it. There are millions of people yarning for affection and hugs but are affair of denial. Once you get that special since of being on the same page, intimacy kicks in and carries both to a new level of excitemnent, but it all start with hugging.

lovely storey and excellent feeling...I am married and both used to love the cuddling and feeling until she became ill (bipolar) nothing like that at all..I am only caring for her...share all changed..x

Aww I know you'll find the right one that exactly needs the same! I'm praying for you!!

I feel the same way :(

Nah I don't think so.. But I'm still hoping..

I miss the laughs, the cuddling, being told how special I was, and feeling like magic....the sad thing for me is he proposed on my bday this year and was murdered 11 days later....and I can't let another man touch me, I'm still in love with my fiance that are getting angry with me, but I'm sorry, I have to take my time on this...
I really never felt love so magical as I did with him..

All I want to do now is give you a long tight hug!
I can understand how you must feel. Finding the right person is very very tough and finding the right person to spend the life together is like finding heaven on earth, because the person you love is the one who will make your life like heaven.
I'm sure you will get someone soon enough, till then , stay strong!

You are not the onley one that is missing the close ness of some one els but I have ben hurt by wemen and I am scared to try to love again but it sure would feel good to have some one to love that would love me back

I will

Me too. I'm actually married, but we haven't been "together" like what you described. We have been separated over a month and he has Aspergers which makes him distant and self-centered. I hope you meet a nice guy who makes you feels special!

Keep your chin up, and stay positive...what you project, you will will happen for you, when you least expect it...


This brought tears to my eyes. It's what I miss the most too. Not the sex. I miss the affection. Walking up behind her and putting my arms around her and giving her a kiss on the neck or shoulder. I've given up but I hope you find it again some day soon.

I understand how u feel. When me and my girlfriend broke up all i wanted was someone to hug when watching tv at night. Message me if u want to chat. Thanks

I never had that, I'm a romantic at heart. I hope I experience that soon. I know it would be the best thing in life, true love.

I think I can understand where you're coming from. I'm only 18, but I've never had the sort of contact that you're describing. I know that it will come soon but sometimes it's hard going by without knowing what it feels like. I'm glad that you gave me something to look forward to. Thank you for that.

I know what you mean, just having that physical closeness is beautiful, its not the same as getting drunk in the clubs and letting some stranger touch you. Its physical contact that connects to the heart and soul.

warm hugs....we all need human contact and affection. I hope you meet that special someone sooner than later.

I can relate to that. I am only 18 but its been almost a year since a girl has touched me in anyway. The feeling of soft hands and soft lips is aleays on myind. It does suck all we can do is get back out there and hopefuly what were looking for will come

Hey may i?

I can somewhat relate. But what is hardest for me is that there is a man living here in my house that is supposed to love me, who doesn't touch me at all unless it is to slap my rear end or grab me by the throat. It is one thing to miss affection if you do not have a partner, but to have a partner who intentionally withholds affection or kindness is very hard for the heart. I feel lower, less hopeful and less worthy of kindness with every passing day. Sigh- I wish lots of warm thoughts for all other lonely and unloved people tonight.

I feel the opposite. I haven't even dated in so long that the idea of a man messing up sheets and hogging my couch and just being in my space has no appeal what so ever.
I can't stand the idea of another body against mine......ugh.
I believe that I truly do not need nor want that much contact with another human

Love and passion definitely is the spice of life.

May you find yours, soon.

All the best!

Thank you, nice lady!

i feel it,how you feel.. hope to find the one soon...

oh yes yes,, still waiting waiting.. for how long dont knw... ...