Recent No Contact Marriage

I have been married for almost 15 years now. Only one time, and that was when we were dating did she make the first move to have sex. While we were dating she slept in the nude...said thats the way she slept. Who was I to complain. She hasn't slept in the nude since we got married. When I mention it she says she don't feel sexy. She still has some damn fine legs. We haven't had sex in at least 6 months and only 3 times in the last year and a half. The only way I even come close is when I fondle her from a dead sleep or she has had a little to much to drink.. Don't know what to do...at wits end
davew1430 davew1430
56-60, M
2 Responses Dec 3, 2012

I have tried....says nothing is wrong. I have tried to make her feel guilty....has no affect.

Talk to her and see what the issues are, if any.