So Alone

I am going through a divorce right now. I have no one to hold and love right now.
sweettexas sweettexas
36-40, M
3 Responses Dec 16, 2012

I agree with other posts on here. I got divorced 17 yrs. ago and it was very traumatic for me. Long story short-- my wife was sleeping with my boss. I was very shy and my ex wife was my only sexual experience. It took me forever to be able to date again and have sex. I *********** a lot and that helped me survive until I could really experience true intimacy with another person. I used drugs and alcohol to have sex. Not a good way to cope most of the time. Try talking openly to someone you can trust. If I can help in any way, please don't hesitate to ask. Good luck

I agree with the two previous posters, got to take care of yourself. First and foremost, refind and refine who you are. You have grown and learned and will continue to learn.

Hello sweettexas, I've been there and the one thing I can tell you is, this is the perfect opportunity for you to love yourself; too often we give so much of who we are to our partner that we forget that we must love ourselves, realizing that we are special and have much to offer, but can only offer the love that we nurture within ourselves, it starts with you and ends with you, look in a mirror, hug yourself and tell you that you love you some you, the love you show yourself will shine through and others will be drawn to that, let your love light shine, I may not know you personally but I can still say I live you for who you are, another caring and feeling humanbeing.