i literally dont think i can handle this anymore. i am craving human intimacy more than anything else!
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17 Responses Aug 20, 2014

I'm sure it's pretty easy for you to find ;)

Me to Hun. Sad thing is my wife is right there on the couch. When I want to hold her she just lays there without emotion or reciprocation. Better off not trying I guess.

Hope you got it for your birthday present.... all the best.

same here! i think you'll find somebody quickly tho ;)

you and i both and i guess all the people around the world as well. we are humans we crave for love and affection . just dont ever go out of the way to get it. respect comes before anythi

Why not go find a guy? U look very pretty

Me too. :O and not just the quick stuff. Something really romantic and intimate!

Romance, real love, and affection mean the world to me.

Im very ugly though and women only cheat on me so I expect to be alone till I die.

I'd settle for a hug w emotion havnt had one I prob 2 yrs. not sure why I'm even married still

Let's meet up. I am a virgin again!!

Again? How do you figure?

It has been another lifetime... ;)

Starting over is very valuable.

Are you a virgin?

I will give it to you!

Be responsible but do what pleases you.

Oh how I wish. I am sure you will have what you wish. =D


Go find some Hun. I'd hug ya


i know how you feel and i agree with ctguitatdude

I understand the feeling. Given that you are female though, you have a much much better chance of actually getting it should you choose, most men cannot.

One, I am intensely unattractive man, and two, women by and large control and have most of the power in these situations. They have the sexual currency as it were. They are the ones who statistically almost always are the "deciders" and are "pursued".

They determine if a relationship happens or not or if it continues. Studies have shown this as well. Women have an almost universally easier time attracting mates, and most in fact act accordingly, forcing men to be the ones to put in the work and face perpetual rejection. Combine that with the reality that women are often taken, or just don't dig men in general. Women need only put themselves out there, men must literally compete and pray to the 7 gods they are deemed worthy and given a golden ticket. It's biology really, only now women often are the bread winners too, so this dynamic has become even more lopsided and unfair for guys.

Well, you have some really bad odds as a guy. For example, women get 90% of the messages on dating sites according to the owners of said sites. They also get 90+% of initial messages too. But here is one really fun fact...


"As you can see from the gray line, women rate an incredible 80% of guys as worse-looking than medium. Very harsh. On the other hand, when it comes to actual messaging, women shift their expectations only just slightly ahead of the curve, which is a healthier pattern than guys’ pursuing the all-but-unattainable. But with the basic ratings so out-of-whack, the two curves together suggest some strange possibilities for the female thought process, the most salient of which is that the average-looking woman has convinced herself that the vast majority of males aren’t good enough for her, but she then goes right out and messages them anyway."

"Females of OkCupid, we site founders say to you: ouch! Paradoxically, it seems it’s women, not men, who have unrealistic standards for the “average” member of the opposite sex."

Men also make up the majority of the homeless and unemployed now too so putting oneself out there is not only impractical, but also unlikely to yield good results.

Men hold incredibly little power to the point of making it useless.. It's like throwing a stone at a tank. Technically you have power, but it's nearly useless.

There is no way to take control of the situation. It is what it is, women simply run the show in the most important aspects of life. This is what men face. And it's gotten so bad that men just aren't bothering anymore. I personally wouldn't even know how or in what way men even "meet" women.

Then you have the added fact you have noi idea how old they are, and a multitude of other factors that could either get you shot down or just in a lot of trouble. Men's suicide rates are 4-6x higher with the biggest factor being women and relationships, second is economical.

As I said, I am very ugly at best. I also have no economic future, and im aging poorly and losing my hair. Women are valued for who they are, men are most often valued for what they do or can do. We are seen as a utility more than anything.

Depends how the woman looks... Not all of us have a choice. Not denying what you've said above, or saying brunettenicki looks anything like me. Just saying, we don't all have the choice. Sure, I've had sex, but the situations are usually less than nice.