An Unhurried Touch

Wow. This speaks right out of my soul...

I have say... you put words to how I feel.

its out there you just have to find the right one . thats what love is all about careing for each other

I feel very much like you do, I became sick and had to go to doctors so often I ended up changing to a home based high school. All my friends dropped me like a rock, even if they lived close, or I bumped into them at the mall. They would ignore my attempts at talking to them though phone calls/texts/online, and in person they acted like I didnt exist and they didnt know me. After I got better I moved to a new state, I've been here 5 almost 6 months and havent been able to make a single friend, despite all my trying. Sleezy men and teen guys hit on me all the time (but I'm a lesbian) and I'm just looking for some friends ): At the craft store, at fairs and festivals, even grocery shopping and the mall. After all this I became active in EP for a form of friends. Still alone in life...

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Very well said

Know what you mean.....the little things....its always the little things that make the difference to me. I have recently left a relatively unaffectionate marriage....very different from the person I am. But I don't think we are alone....unfortunately. I make the most of hugging friends, not the same hahahaha, but the love and affection is helped to stay alive within me, that I do know.....and it really makes a difference to the people I hug! But yeah, what you talk about, I crave that too, with someone I love deeply and them me....its so special that wayx

Love everyone wants it! Me too^^

Huh i would love that

I am just lonely right now. I don't have the words to express. My husband passed 2 months ago.

J

yea.... i still remember holding my gf close to my chest. she loved to listen to the rythm of my heart beat... thts y i used to call her my HrtBt.... i kno wat u feel like.... n i absolutely agree tht guys really dnt undrstand its importance... i tried tellng this to my frnds bf, bt he jz laughed it off... well anyway.... i really wish u find some1 to hold u wid all his heart and stay tht way as if u two hd all the tym in the world... :)

My husband doesn't understand the importance of physical contact without sex all the time. Women need to be held and feel loved. My husband will dog this but then got straight to trying to havre sex. If you havre someone who understand this then good luck!

So nicely put....I absolutely crave it.

I would love to give you a hug and maybe a kiss? :) HUUUUGGGG.

ohhhh GOD ur words are just the same exact thing i want and so desperately iv never even had a good mother's love which i absolutely crave everyday just one true connection with someone except sex coz i think that sex is not a form of love and will never be,just one girl i want to love me like no one has ever done before!!

It is very easy to relate to this. When dating my current wife, we used to meet up at a local motel each Sunday morning. She ws seperated I was legally divorced and living back at home see if the marriage could be fixed, didn't work out.

We would meey up go to the room get naked and snuggle for a few hours to make up for the long week apart. Often times she would fall asleep next to me(tired from caring for her elderly mother and working full time), and I would just watch her sleep and imagine the day when we would be together. There were times when we never even had sex and just holding each other talking , being naked and kissing I will tell you the pleasure felt was sometimes far beyond the actual pleasure of the act and climax, It was connection we have, even today with basically no sex of foreplay or seeing her naked, when the opportunity comes along(rarely) to lie naked feeling her skin is better than any drug and intoxicating to me. I need that so much right now and have thought to myself surely there is some unhappy married woman out there who needs the same to get through the days till hopefully things change.

Where does one fond such a person? Then I ask myself if it was possible would I really do it. For me that intimate contact from a woman , who responds, makes me feel whole and complete and am willing to give anything anyway to feel it.

Honestly I want both...love and lust. I have had pure physical relationships and it is very true that they are pretty empty without an emotional connection. However, I have also loved men who did not satisfy me physically. Fortunately I currnently have the best of both worlds- I have a man I love to love and I have a male friend I love to f-ck. Life is good!

I remember those days....

I wish you luck. :)

I hope you have found this Love Hunni....your words are perfect too



I too am Searching for this Impossible Love,one can find to have Sex anytime,this is Pointless,Love is the Most Important in Ones Life.



Good luck.x

We are out here in plain site I just dont think thats what women are initially attracted to so we go unnoticed.

I have a man that was always doing sweet little things like that. and then he moved an hour away for college. I only get to see him once a week for a couple hours. He is still sweet but I get that need for physical contact of love that you are yearning for. It sucks... :/

Those are the things I am looking for and I do believe it is out there somewhere. Do not lose hope.

Sorry to hear that RH0041, but what you're saying it's true it's a two way street

Sweet concept..I think most of us long for those small but special moments.

I seem to get hurt when ever I make an effort to show her she is special to me.

Maybe thats her way of dealing with life.

If I come up behind her while she is cooking and nibble her ear...she gets very angry.

I give her a whole body message, as soon as I am done, she tells me to get out and go pay bills or something.

All I am saying really is "It's a two way street" The couple have both want to share these feelings.

My wife, I am sure wants to, but can't.

As a man, I don't know how to cope with that.

I want it< I crave it, I can't have it.

I just keep looking. Everytime i think i may have found him, he just slips out of my hands like a slippery fish. Ugh! So frustrating, but i know it will be worth it in the end.

Beautifully expressed, I read this and wonder if I will ever find that special person too.......

Reading this just made me cry...

I've had it before, would like it some more, yet it's hard to find and even harder to keep.



Still I have to admit... to be able to pull her pants down... and go to town, right after that hug from behind would be sweet...

i would like the same tired of being alone

And so what I wish I had too. it's not about sex, but love. Thank you for sharing

How right you are Sunshine - sex is a temporary relief which does need releasing, but when it comes down to it, it's the emotional side that really counts.