Kdmoonbeam

I think polygomy is such a great lifestyle. My wife and her sisterwife are the best of friends. They do so much with each other and for each other. It brings me so much happiness to know that I work my but off to keep them happy. It is a balance of things. Its not some sexual ********* for us. it is much deeper than that. All I know is , It works for us. I have 4 kids with my wife and our sisterwife brings 4 of her own to our family. It is just the greatest feeling to spend time as a great big family.

I think many times some people, just because they never experienced something, cannot believe it even exists. I'm sure there are many like you who could say the same of monogamy, or any other mariatl type relationship.

I happen to love people sometimes. Deeply, and with the desire to maintain that love even in hard times. I happen to love people who might not be able to fill every role in my life, and I love them no less because of that. No-one could fill every place in my heart alone, and I like people with the maturity to understand that.



Love should never be supressed. Why would anyone want less love the world? And what comes of forcing oneself not to love? I don't want to feel that kind of jealousy and self-hate. I make enough mistakes without turning a good thing into a "sin."



-Michaela.

Well, it really all depends upon all the parties involved. For that matter it is not any different from any other relationship. Luckily poly relationships are also evolving away from the earlier dynamics of women being forced into a relationship and many times at an very early age. We have heard and read about those communities that in my opinion give a black eye to the poly lifestyle. More and more poly relationships are formed by mature and freely consenting adults. I do not know your family situation where you grew up but there are numerous reasons for polygamy. Economic, financial, housekeeping, more people to talk to, experience with, different points of view, easier on the career development, raising kids etc.

Do they always work out? No, but neither does monogamy. In fact it would be interesting to see which system has the least divorces.