My Husband Wants to Bring His Girlfriend Into Our Home
Three months ago I was told by my husband that he was in love with another woman. I spent two weeks confused and hurt that I couldnt be enough of what he wanted. Also this woman was at one point a friend of mine, but severed communication because she felt it would be "wierd" to be friends with my while she was with my husband.
Things since then have changed. I am now somewhat ok with his decision, my reasoning that I have my husband home still and my children have their father. He still loves me, he just loves another woman as well. I get some really bad reactions from people about my decision to stick with him. The reason I have stayed however is that this isnt affecting us in a negative way. In fact we have a somewhat better realtionship.
He has somewhat jokingly but also somewhat seriously suggested several times that he thinks she should move in with us and we could all live together. My only problem with this? I am afraid of bieng the one left out, I dont want to see him give her more affection or love than he does me.
What I want to do is get some feed back from others who have been in a marraige like this or those who are in one. I want to know the pros and cons, and anything else.