Just Getting Started...

My husband and I are just getting involved in BDSM, we are learning to take on our roles (me as sub, him as Dom). We're just not sure how to go about it. Our roles are for the bedroom only, we don't want to live life in our roles - is that possible and would we still be able to embrace our roles well? How do we go about making our rules? I want to please him, but we are both unsure how to exercise our role. Does anyone have any tips?
WantingToLearn WantingToLearn
36-40, F
3 Responses May 16, 2012

There are some awesome websites and books out there...<br />
Here is your first one:<br />
SM 101 by Jay Wiseman<br />
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Peek at my groups. I have one called "I Transferred My Blog..."<br />
Find the Links post I have up. :) I would link it, but I am too lazy right now. If you can't find it, message me and I will direct you to it :)

Thank you Sunni - I actually just ordered that book :) We should be getting it today. I will take a look at your groups....thanks again!

Hi Retsim, thanks! I'd be happy to chat here on this site - is there a way of doing that?

I am in the same situation. Let me know if you'd like to talk. Maybe we could figure it out together :)