Trying the Dom/sub LifestyleMy long distant bf and I have been trying this sexually only. It started by accident when we were together. I made a joke about using handcuffs and turned out he liked that. So we agreed to do this seriously, with rules for me to follow. This is what we both wanted. We have been having fun with this but I messed things up. We had made it a rule I couldn't play with my toys without his permission but I did last week. He was hurt that I broke my promise but also now he thinks I don't want to do this anymore and tells me I have to prove to him I want to. Problem is he wants me to figure out how to do that. I have no idea how to prove this. Guess this is his way of showing his control by making me try proving it to him. This whole dom/sub thing is not as simple as I thought but I really want to continue it.
dreamer567 41-45, F 11 Responses 2 May 26, 2007