Dating Two Married Men
I am dating two married men and I really like both of them and I don't want them to leave their wives. I met them both online on POF and I knew from the beginning that they were both married. They treat me like I am the only person in the world when I am with them. They do not however know that I am dating two of them. That is my little secret and my extra security from getting hurt.
I am just out of a 23 year marriage and I do not want anything long term. I love being on my own and only having the kids part time. I believe that married guys who cheat..well that is their problem and not mine. They pursued me and they are the ones that have everything to lose. Don't get me wrong there are definately disadvantages like being alone but with two of them my schedule is pretty full.
I think my eyes are wide open and my heart is guarded but I have only been seeing the one for 3 months and the other for just a month. I have never done this before but married guys at least my married guys really have taken their time to know me...have invested their time and energy on me. Bottom line I am okay with myself and my secret world.