I am dating someone that is eight years younger than me. Things are good for the most part, but I seem to think to myself that it is hard to accept the fact that he is truely committed to me. Maybe I am rushing this way of thinking, but I'm not getting any younger and to waste even a few years with someone who is just going to bail on me seems like a horrible thing to do. It also seems horrible to me to exspect him to know what he is going to want for the rest of his life when he is in his early twenties. What do I do? Just go with the flow and be happy and see what happens? Or break it off for the fact that I surely didn't know what I wanted when I was his age. (As most of us do not!) I guess I'm scared that years will pass and then he'll decide I'm not really what he wants and toss me aside. Boy, this post makes me sound insecure!