I Have An Older Man Fetish...is That Normal?I am 43 and for some years, probably at least 15 years I have been fantasising about older men over 60. They must be over 60. Just the sight of them turn me on. It is a true fetish.
I wonder whether there are other women out there who have a fetish such as this or am I the only one.
The problem is, and this is something of a large obstacle in my way, is every time I sit fantasising about them I resolve that I will flirt with some handsome specimen when I next go out. But when I am out I find that almost all of the men within the right age group are walking around in a world of their own, women are totally off their radar. They have forgotten how to flirt, probably because women don't look at them any more. This makes my life very difficult as I cannot engage them in conversation and flirt, making it obvious that I am interested in them...romantically. It's hopeless.
So I have joined a dating agency and I find that my search criteria is 'man, between 60 and 70, living within 15 miles from me', now that's fair enough, isn't it? Men do get in touch, some of them are married, most of them are in their 40s but a few are just what I'm looking for. Do you think, dear reader, that I will ever find an older man, willing to create a committed long term, emotional and sexual connection with me. The ideal relationship.
More to come...
LucyAmber 41-45, F 4 Responses 1 Jan 12, 2013