Help! Get Back Together With Her, Or Just Keep Looking?

So I was seeing a girl who, after 2 months of being FWB I decided to ask her to start dating. I didn't really feel any strong feelings of lust or desire for her, but she was very sweet and kind and when my friends asked 'would she be good for you', I had to answer yes.

But a month into being bf/gf, I called it off. I still didn't really have those lusty feelings you're supposed to have for your partner, but loved spending time with her. Now, I'm reconsidering.

Though I don't feel very attracted to her physically, I am attracted to her in every other way. I do miss her, and can't help but wonder if that physical attraction is really necessary to have a happy long term relationship.

MisterWho MisterWho
31-35, M
1 Response Nov 27, 2012

Decided to try again... after just a week apart I thought that maybe I made a mistake. It's been about 6 weeks since we've been back together, and though I enjoy her company, I'm again, still not 'feeling it'.

But I don't think it's her. I believe anyone I was with I would feel this way. So, I want to give it more time. Perhaps time, and exposure to her love and care will help beat some life back into my hollow chest.