The Party Girl And The Lover.

Cody is very shy and pensive;
I can be social and fun(er)
He is smart and creative;
I can be daring and wild.

We are a little different in fact he pointed that out to me earlier today but interestingly we make a good couple...
Maybe I should explain cody and then get his explanation of me....

When I think of Cody it's hard not to think of passion...
He feels so much... so deeply... sometimes it breaks my heart to see him sad... like all the sadness in the world has poured into those Brown/Green Eyes of his... He can look at someone hurting and I know that he can feel their pain...
He is so charming and attractive... I think women are drawn to his gentleness and quiet confidence... not shy... just... lonely... maybe by choice and by nature...
But on the flip side he is a martyr for his self... like he's rather be a nail than a hammer... sometimes I'll be yelling at him and he'll look at me... just look and I stop... as bad as it is to say... it's probably the look Jesus gave on his way to the cross.... but at the same he can be elusive and extremely sensitive...

I used to be a lot of that... but being with him has let me 'find myself' in ways I never expected... I can be strong willed and hard headed when I want and I never thought I could be that... he says he's glad I'm growing into such a strong woman... I've learned to have a big heart from Cody but the great thing about him is that he teaches me so much and doesn't know it...
Just because he can be a generous giver doesn't mean he's afraid of when to tell someone to be self-sufficient.
I feel like I'm married to Obi-Wan-Kenobi sometimes...
I guess that makes me a learner.

We have a conflicting personality type but we compliment eachother beautifully....
He can let my headstrong personality take lead he doesn't mind being my silent protective partner...  both of us are fascinated by eachother's nature and we have equal admiration for eachother....We are both romantic individuals...
Sometimes I wonder who really calls the shots... I think him but from the outside looking in I look like the one calling the shots... I wonder now if he only lets me make decisions so that I can be independant...
I want a man who will flatter me and be sweet and say nice things to me...
And he's all too happy to take care of my needs and please me...
I want to be treated like a queen and he has no qualms in showing me just how good he can be to a woman...

In fact he does attract a lot of women for being so charming...
which does make me a little jealous now... that's another trait I'm starting to have...
Those men and women who don't understand how a man could back in the old days build his own harem of female followers by charisma alone have obviously not met men like Cody...
He tells me that my temper is flattering and that I can be all too willing to jump up and defend him when he is attacked...
His personality is actually not all that aggresive with the exception of his.... bedroom talent... more rigorous penatration has not been felt during those throws of passion! I mean he can give some passionate pounding!
I love how he's so comfortable with who he is and so cool with my self-growth.
I look forward to becoming a woman with him...
(I'm 20 he's 26)
abritishgirl abritishgirl
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1 Response Jan 13, 2013

I loved this story . . . very well written . . . is this a true story ? . . . thank you for sharing it chickie . . . they sound like a great partnership that will last . . . and who doesn't love when that happens . . . very cool . . . 8D

lol yes its true... me and cody... I used to be a wallflower but I'm glad I can come out of my shell with him.... I think its great that a guy encourages me to change and mature instead of fighting it and growing apart...

that's the best . . . very happy for you both . . . love you two . . . keep going and growing. . . and again thanx for sharing . . . love a happy love story . . .as you know . . . lol . . . 8D