I Never Thought I Would Feel This Way About Anyone, Ever.

I used to think that love, true love, was something that only happend in the movies.  I never believed that I would ever have somone in my life that I could say for sure that I loved.  Then I met my husband.  It started off as just friendship, just someone to talk to.  After I helped him with his nasty breakup with his girlfriend, we started sleeping together.  It's weird, because a lot of people say that that's not good, that relationships that start in sex usually end pretty fast.  But we were okay with taking that chance.  Neither of us were looking for a relationship.  Then after about 3 months of just sex and friendship (I guess you would call it "friends with benfits" or whatever) he asked me out.  Not like on a date, but to be his girlfriend.  I remember I laughed because it sounded so high school.  I turned him down.  I told him I did not want to be his rebound, that if we were going to be together that it would be a little longer... I wanted him to be sure.  So 3 more months went by, and he asked me again.  By this time, my feelings for him had bloomed...  He had cared for me and taken care of me, and was there for me.  I could tell he loved me, and I loved him.  So I said yes.  About 4 months later, I moved in with him, mostly cause I wanted to and partly because I wasn't getting along with my parents... but I was cautious.  Since then, we have been together for four years, and married for 1 year.  And we still love eachother more than ever.  I joke with him, telling him that if me and him don't work out, I am going to be with a woman... lol.  I just don't think I could ever love another man as much as I love him.  And of course he said, he wouldn't mind that because he would just be our roomate, lol.

BamaBabe87 BamaBabe87
22-25, F
2 Responses Mar 4, 2010

I kinda feel identify with your story... I wish I could be that lucky

I applaud your love! Kudos to your husband! He is obviously a tremendous guy!