Have a daughter, who is 7. I am all of a sudden extremely depressed that she is growing up. I feel she may start developing early and my baby girl will be all gone. I sometimes feel having another child would help, but would just be a band aid on the depression. For numerous reasons, we will not be having a 2nd. I wish I could just live in the moment and not freak out about the inevitable, but that has never been my strong suit. Does anyone know of a good book out there about the subject? I'm sure I'm not alone in feeling this way, but for some reason don't feel comfortable talking about it with anyone I know.