Wife Of 12 Years And 5 Kids Is A Lesbian

We are in the process of financially splitting. I've been depressed for the past two years because I have watched her slip away slowly. She tells me I'm important but treats me the opposite. She has been in love witha woman for the past two years. I have seen her get hot over penis just not mine. I know what the deal is. She is leaving me for a women after I have done everything in my power to make her happy. I'm ready to move on, but I'm stuck watching her live her new life. I'm so lonely and have been for awhile. I normally would never spit this out to the outside world but I'm drunk. Alchoholics run in my family and its to easy to turn to when I'm hurtin. In so much pain just want it to stop.
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3 Responses Sep 19, 2010

divorce is really tough, so sorry, the pain can't be avoided sometimes, there is a support group that i went to that really helped me a lot, divorcecare.org will give you the locations near you, even if you don't want to be in a group, their dvds are REALLY informative and helpful. so sorry for your pain...

sorry to hear you are in pain .. it is not easy we are here to support you ..

I'm sorry for your situation. There really is not anything anyone can say to make you feel better. I just know that you are going to have to start trying to make a new life for yourself. Reach out to others for their support. She has made her choice, now let her go live it, and find someway to look for someone else that will appreciate what you have to offer. Good Luck