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Stressed Lonely and Depressed

l have been away from my family for seven months and l can not bare the lonileness anymore l dont know what to do with myself l try to hang out with friends but always find myself being upsend minded, l can not even concerntrate on anything, my phone bill is now so high and l dont know what to do with myself anymore

 

kattylin kattylin 31-35, F 11 Responses Sep 7, 2007

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Im sorry, things will get better, its a tough situation your in but try to stay focused! Atleast you have a family

I have decided if i get depressed i hope out of it . And make blank and then do it for peole
talk on here and write about how you feel.
It has been so many years ago..
how are you doing now.
what have you been doing with your life.
I will be your friend and you can write to me .
And then I care about you .
And I know how you feel.
The computer is my best friend.
I don't have many friends out in the world.
But i have a whole bunch on the computer.
And they check on me every day .
and i don't come on
they worried and then they are there to tell me.
hang in there

Have you ever tried Skype? You can talk to them on your computer and not pay a cent...Not that I'm a commercial for them or anything. :P

<p>it getss better only if you have an intimate company around at your present place.. Its not a replacement to your existing relationships, but certainly, thats da way out, and i have been away from home for more than an year.. and this kept my life happy. We should be lucky to get a sensitive person, who respects our existing relationships, and still stays for us.. and provides us da intimacy we need.</P>

I have been away from my family for 20 years and I still miss them. Get Busy.. Taking classes helped me.

I would suggest you set some routines for yourself.. even if its silly stuff like grosseries or bank or whatever.. you need something to keep you going, out of the house and around other people. I think strangers would be better than friends for you at this stage... get involved in some random talk with people you dont know... and you will find that suddenly something interests you or sparks curiosity - that's a spec of hope and life for you there...its amazing how sometimes talking to random people makes you feel that people "see you" and you are actually alive although you feel a bit dead inside.<br />
I would say.. give yourself some time fr<x>ames and be ready to make some desicions when that time ends.. no point being sad about something you cant change...if you can change it.. then do it - life is too short to be unhappy and if you love and are close to family then you know what you need to do. Lastly... remember...most things dont last forever, that is: your situation and your family... which one are you going to work on first? :)<br />
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Much love and blessings<br />
Indigolady

I would suggest you set some routines for yourself.. even if its silly stuff like grosseries or bank or whatever.. you need something to keep you going, out of the house and around other people. I think strangers would be better than friends for you at this stage... get involved in some random talk with people you dont know... and you will find that suddenly something interests you or sparks curiosity - that's a spec of hope and life for you there...its amazing how sometimes talking to random people makes you feel that people "see you" and you are actually alive although you feel a bit dead inside.<br />
I would say.. give yourself some time fr<x>ames and be ready to make some desicions when that time ends.. no point being sad about something you cant change...if you can change it.. then do it - life is too short to be unhappy and if you love and are close to family then you know what you need to do. Lastly... remember...most things dont last forever, that is: your situation and your family... which one are you going to work on first? :)<br />
<br />
Much love and blessings<br />
Indigolady

Take up photography

Keep the faith and share your loneliness with God. Talk to Him, spill it all out. Somehow, He'll give you encouragement within your heart to cope with it. Just keep in your mind that your family is feeling the same of your absence. Pray for them and yourself..

Will you be returning to your family? I'm sorry you are lonely, so am I.

Hang in there sweetie. I know how you feel.