Life Just Sucks

My life is one that no one would ever want. Im about to be 21 and im overweight and very depressed. About a year ago I was put into a mental institute for cutting and overdosing on some pills. I am so lonely, i've never even been kissed, never been on a date.
georgiagrl georgiagrl
22-25, F
5 Responses Aug 3, 2007

Do you still come here?

u are not alone everyone in ep is facing their own different demons or experiences stay strong man. and please stop winning there is defineylu something u can do about your weigjy definetly

I am sorry you feel this way. Me too, I am sad. Ur not alone

I am sorry you feel this way. Me too, I am sad. Ur not alone

In my experience lonelyness is usually cause because people do not understand themselves and the type of person they are.<br />
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I would suggest that you think about the things you like doing for example painting and drawing, reading or learning lanuages make a list<br />
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Once you have decided on the type of interest you have then join a group of people who have the same interest for example if you like painting and drawing join a art class. If you like speaking different lanuages join a language class - if you already speak a lanuage then group of people that like speaking that language.<br />
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If you do this you will have so meny interesting things to do that you will not have time to be lonely and at the same time you will naturally build friendships with people who have the samethings in common and they for will want to be your friend.<br />
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I am 53 years old and when I was 24 I felt excactly the same so I did what I have told you to do. <br />
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Now I never get lonely because I know who I am and what I like to do. <br />
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I now understand myself as a person. I know what I like doing and what I don't like doing.<br />
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I have so many friends now that I wish they would leave me alone. I don't want any more friends I wish people would stop wanting to be my friend because I have so many things to do that interest me - my friends just get in the way of what I like to do. Some times I wish I could be lonely it would be great believe!<br />
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As I said, I once was like you when I was 24 I did what I have told you to do and within 18 months my like had change to one of fun. excitment and lots of friends so try it -see if it works for you.