DEPRESSED

I MET MY HUSBAND WHEN I WAS 13. WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER EVERY SINCE. I KNOW SOMETHING WAS WRONG SOMETHING WAS DIFFERENT.. LAST NIGHT IS ALL BOILED OVER AND WE GOT IN A FIGHT AND HE ADMITTED TO ME HE HAS FEELINGS FOR ANOTHER WOMEN. IT IS EATING ME ALIVE... HE TOLD ME THEY HAVE NEVER DON'T ANYTHING AND HE IS NOT SURE IF SHE FEELS THE SAME WAY. HE TOLD ME HE IS ASHAMED AND WOULD NEVER ACT ON IT. I AM JUST SO DEPRESSED THIS HAPPENED... WAS T MY FAULT DID I DO SOMETHING WRONG FOR THIS TO HAPPEN ? HE SAYS HE LOVES ME AND DOES NOT WANT ME TO LEAVE HIM... I AM JUST NOT SURE MY HEART IS ABLE TO MAKE PAST THIS...

AROMAOFDEATH AROMAOFDEATH
22-25, F
2 Responses Feb 10, 2009

THANK YOU

That is devastating news for you, I am so sorry. To feel betrayed like that is very painful.<br />
Do not blame yourself, no no no. It is bad enough this was done to you, don't add to your pain by taking ANY responsibility at all. He is going to have to earn your trust back, if you want to give it to him. <br />
Don't make any decisions until you calm down a bit.<br />
I am so so sorry for your pain, I have been there myself.