What's your sign? Did you know that the astrological sings not only define who we are to ourselves but to others. When you first meet someone you are actually not yourself but a projection of the sense of what they see in your sign. Let me explain. You're out on your first date and you find yourself sitting a way or acting a way that is not normal to your cognate behavior because you become a mirror to this persons perceptions. We have no control over our limitations of actions through others eyes. How you think you are presenting yourself and how you are defined are two completely different things. So in a sense we have no control over our actions of others views. We as people try to impress our fellow peers into thinking we are something that we are not, but in a sense we are not who we are because we are different to every single person. You could be out at a bar doing one thing in the eyes of everyone around you, you are portraying many different actions with one solitary action. So what might be found as desire in ones glance is a form of disgust in another's. It is impossible to be a true to yourself when finding yourself in the impossible public eye. The only time we get a glimpse of our inner soul is when in complete solitude. This could be why so many hate being alone. But when with our significant other we feel a sense of being wanted and self love, but this is not our own feelings but the projection of the other person's desire for what that think we are at face value. So in a way we are not searching for a person we think we love but a person who is willing to love us for what they see in us. When you sleep with a person you're choosing to share their attributes with yourself. That is where the term soul mate comes from. Once again you are no longer yourself but have become the other person. For example you're dating this person and you fall in love with them you feel wanted and a sense of being. You go out and have a one night drunken fling to come home to find the person you were ever so in love with to be something completely different. This is because you have taken of the attributes of the fling from the night before and more than likely that person did not share your desire for you love. That is why cheating never works. It is not the guilt that drives people away but the forms of gathered behaviors from others. The more partners you have the harder it becomes to find someone who will accept the many personality flaws. People don't change on their own it comes down to visions and creations set on a ticking time bomb. So the more you dwell on the flaws of the person the more apparent the flaws will appear. This is what you choose to see the person as. We have more control over our relationships but become lazy due to not understanding the basic level of thought and processing. Have you found in your life that history is repeating it's self this is because of the lack of letting go and moving forward. The mind is very powerful and it computes what we generate as reality and eventually will make or break the reality of the center of casual thought. So if you have many past failed relationships this is due to your own desire of being alone. All things are possible in a world of untrained restrictions of free will. Insanity becomes reality in the focus of our own delusions of trained thought. Schooling is a good way to indoctrinate us into clones of a "better" tomorrow. The Jones's have become the neighboring reminder of our own hidden failures. Expectations of commodity has become a recession of the unattainable tangible things that we consider success. Beauty has been formed by a plastic knife to control the eyes of acceptance. In a world that has become a stranger to itself the search for true love has become a social labyrinth with no core. Searching to find an end to another beginning has proven to be a daunting task. With misplaced turn you find yourself stranded in the middle of your own mind.