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The Loss Of My Mother

my mother passed away january 14, 1999 she was 45 years old and it so happened that 5 days before that was my sister's 20th birthday yes it has been 11 years since my mom died but i still miss her and i have not been the same since and other things in my life have not made it any easier eithe my mom basically died from a heart attack i feel ampty and alone.

amberfl amberfl 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 23, 2010

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BOTH MY PARENTS PASSED AWAY 12 YEARS AGO AND I STILL CAN NOT ACCEPT THAT THEY ARE NOT HERE ANYMORE,AS I AM WRITING I AM CRYING THIS IS EVERY DAY,MY MOM WAS MY BEST FRIEND,I WISH THEY WERE STILL LIVING TO SEE THEIR BEAUTIFUL GRANDAUGHTERS,TWINS 10 YEARS OLD ONE NINE YEARS OLD AND ONE 4 YEARS OLD.SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS EVERYONE.

I understand. My mother has been dead for 12 years. Time is healing. But it still hurts and I still miss her.

I lost my mother a few months ago and it was/is a strange and painful experience. I lost my father 13 years ago and was heartbroken, but I had my mother to share my grief/ Now with the loss of my mother and my best friend, life is very different. I think it changes you when you lose both parents. I leaves you not only lost but as the "big dog". There are no matriarchs or patriarchs to look to for guidance and unfaltering love. You are now in charge of your world representing the family. Only you. It is difficult, some days impossible. You must remember that death will come to all of us. We cannot get out of life alive. You must come to the point where you go on. You tuck their love into your heart and go forward. . .for all of you.

It is normal to mourn the death of a loved one.



In time daily life becomes routine again but there are days and moments where you wish she was with you.



My father passed away 27 years ago. I remember crying a lot 16 years later on the date of his anniversary because he was not going to meet my daughter ( I´d just found out I was pregnant) and I was sure he would have been delighted to become a grandfather.



My mom passed away in March of this year, and I am in the mourning process and I think that will last me a lifetime. I miss her. I wish she was here enjoying her one and only granddaughter.



My thoughts are with you.

My thoughts and prayers are with you both...