Why Did I Let Him Realize That I Am Weak Interms of Love.

I made love with this guy hoping that he will realize that i needed him most in my life. I called me sometimes to his room but he never told me he loved me, until yesterday when I went to his residance room and told him straight to the face that I love him. He could n't reply but later smsd me and told me that he is not in love with me. I couln't believe it even now, and it hurts me. I love him so much and rili want him to feel the same way too. everyboby has been inlove and sure you will understand how i feel. This guy rocks my world, whenever I see him I have butterflies in my stomach. as of today, I even fear to go to skool cause I might meet him arounn tyhe campus. He is doing 3rd year and I am in 2nd year, lucky we share lectures. I need to be with him, he is the reason I wanna live and I believe someday we will be together and he will realize that he gat a home in my heart.
coolcatty coolcatty
18-21, F
4 Responses Mar 24, 2009

my opinion is you thought wrong to have sex with a guy who doesn't fell the same way hoping that his heart would change and return your lvoe, from what I have read he knew telling you to your face would hurt you so he xt you instead, you cannot force someone to love you or feel the way you do, he isn't interested in you so find someone that does, thing is you seem to love this guy way too much or even more than yourself or else you wouldn't have sd he was the reason for you to live. your young enjoy it, love will find you when it is ready...... never use sex as a tool to find love that's just selling yourself way below your worth


gud luck

Oh boy .. you got it bad girl. Get on with your life and who knows, maybe he will come around and maybe he won't. But if you NEED someone to make you HAPPY, you will be disappointed. You can only make yourself happy by doing sports, hobbies, schoolwork, exercise, reading or whatever floats your boat. As soon as you give a guy the power to make you happy, it's over. <br />
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Read up on relationships in Psychology books. Skip those stupid girly magazines. All those feelings you are feeling internally are biochemical reactions to a male. It's not love. It's over in a couple of years anyway. You get use to each other's chemistry and then you are left with a person. You better love that person for who they are. Anyway, read up on pheromne attraction. Love is not butterflies in your tummy. I learned that the hard way.

Oh boy .. you got it bad girl. Get on with your life and who knows, maybe he will come around and maybe he won't. But if you NEED someone to make you HAPPY, you will be disappointed. You can only make yourself happy by doing sports, hobbies, schoolwork, exercise, reading or whatever floats your boat. As soon as you give a guy the power to make you happy, it's over. <br />
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Read up on relationships in Psychology books. Skip those stupid girly magazines. All those feelings you are feeling internally are biochemical reactions to a male. It's not love. It's over in a couple of years anyway. You get use to each other's chemistry and then you are left with a person. You better love that person for who they are. Anyway, read up on pheromne attraction. Love is not butterflies in your tummy. I learned that the hard way.

I understand. You put yourself out there and it wasn't returned. I'm sorry. You can't make someone love or even like you back. You have to be able to love yourself and save yourself before you can expect someone to love you back. Know that somewhere inside him he does probably care about you, cherish every memory with him and take all of those good feelings and hold your head up and believe something good will come from this. Love is great and at the same time it can hurt and rip your heart right out of your chest. Eventhough I have had that happen I still believe in love. Good luck to you. Try to breath, and take one step at a time.