My husband of 15 yrs was treating me awful and cheating. He had a drug problem in the best and think hes using again. He blames it all on me casue of stress of bills cause 2 yrs ago bought a new house he picked out and this yr he got a motorcycle we couldnt afford. I would like to tell him that real men dont climb into another ladies bed because of stress thats just him trying to take his guilt away. I loved him with all my heart we have 4 kids together we just started the divorce and he is making things so difficult and its just the beginning.