After 8 years of has come down to this. He doesn't even love me anymore. What is there to pick up? There is nothing left to repair....he is able to flirt with other girls online and ask her to message him because of a posted sad face but could not even hold my hand when i needed it so much ....

Is there hope for me to be whole again?
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4 Responses Dec 1, 2012

I am sorry he is non-supportive.

I was in a marriage/divorce where, just the littlest show of support (hand hold, smile, kind words) would have made all the difference. But some people are to focused on themselves to think of others. Even significant others.

Remember: without hope all is lost. Keep fighting.

There has to be hope for all of us going thru an emotional time. With good friends, family and God, I believe that next year at this time we will be smiling and happy.

''For I am the LORD, your God, who takes hold of your right hand and says to you, Do not fear; I will help you.''

Yes, there is hope. You are very likely to be happy again. Once I accepted that my marriage was over, I became much happier. I like who I am, and I am looking to the future with bright eyes. I am hoping you will find the same peace I have found.

There is always hope. Don't give up on yourself. I'm not completely where you are, but I do understand some of the pain. Find something, anything new to do. You need a new experience in your life. I started Zumba and loved it! I keep telling myself that everything happens for a reason. We don't always know the reasons, but trust that you will be okay. Here if you need to talk.