Divorced Life Is Not Fun

I am recently divorced, I found my husband with another woman in March of 2006 and was devasted and distraught for about a year I still have not gotten over it and wanted to know if anyone else is going through the same thing.
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46-50, F
1 Response Jun 27, 2007

You don't ever get over it, you just learn to make it less important. I had a similar situation 4 years ago and although he swears the affair started after we separated, I like you just couldn't deal with being rejected and it affected all aspects of my life so so long. The only thing you can do honestly is try to get it in perspective - look at the wonderful things you shared together and realize that the season for this relationship has ended, that you take the good from what you shared and move on to new relationships, activities and opportunities. YOu can either let this destroy you or strengthen you. Please choose wisely. If you want to check out my website www.exinthecity.com I started it to help women like you reinvent themselves after a divorce. Its full of fun blogs, experts, travel and support. Its all free. I am not selling anything. Wish you well.