No More Games

I have went through some serious mental and spiritual decisions. I have decided I'm done trying to find a woman for me. Eharmony, Match.com, Bars, going to events to pick up women. I'm done with even trying with this. If I dint find someone in my natural life I'm done with even thinking about the "American dream". I will live alone I will be happy because I choose to be happy alone. When a girl likes me I dint want to have to decipher some code (IE when she crosses her legs in such and such way) to tell if she likes me. Also I dint want women to have to deal with this with me either. So I'm going to use the K.I.S.S. method (Keep It Simple Stupid) and simply be a good person to everyone. If I meet s special lady I will treat her with respect and courtesy and if that doesn't work. That's fine.

I was going to do this privately but then while driving from the bank/Bel Air I thought. Who else is done with the dating game?

Zenjason Zenjason
26-30
3 Responses Dec 6, 2009

I'm done too. At age 36 time to pack it in and move on with life. Women take too much time out of life. The few ones who liked me I don't and vice-versa. The mutual feeling ones were, of course, short lived. So why keep beating my head against the wall, and letting my heart get wrecked? The most recent girl I went after, and I have never loved a girl like that, did not reciprocate but chose a guy who doesn't love her. That put the nail in the coffin for me.

I haven't given up yet...but sheesh sometimes I want to!

i TOTALLY RELATE TO YOU. I AM JUST GETTING ON WITH MY LIFE. I DONT MAKE ANY MAJOR EFFORTS TO FIND A PARTNER, I BELIEVE NOW THAT IF ITS GONNA HAPPEN THEN LET IT HAPPEN NATURALLY TO A POINT OF ME NOT EVEN BEING CONSCIOUS OF IT.