Ok, so you have an average man. Let's put this man in an average room. Let's say 15' x 15'... Ok so in this room this average man has his love of beer, sports, sex, etc... All his macho glory is in this room... This defines him.... This is the room he shows the world... He shows his self off on so to speak. You meet this man and talk with him, you will find all your average "man" personalities.... My room is different.... Not totally different though. Just bigger.. Because I am a man, I have all the macho stuff that goes with it but there is a whole lot more than just that. My room is 30' x 30' Yes, as I man, I flex in the mirror, shave my face, love sex, etc... But there is more in my room than that average man's. Stuff maybe he doesn't want to show the world or admit. I have a very emotional side, that I really lose control of. I don't want to portray it as a weakness but more of me being in touch with my self. I do cry, I do apologize, I feel hurt more than the average man. Is that bad? Maybe sometimes it is.... Sometimes I might come across as more needy or maybe more loveable... Either way, this is me... And I have to accept that I am not average in this sense... Yes, it does make me deeper and more complex. Patience is key with me. If you have no patience.. Than yes, I might come across as soft or w/e... This is me..