He's Set My Life Straight

I am engaged, and excited.  Very excited. 

First of all, I'll clear the air of the mystery by stating that I am gay.  I have been living as a playboy bachelor for many years now, and have come to realize that I need stability.  Lots and lots of stability.  I do not need a fluxing, changing life full of "adventure"... I need to come home to somebody who realizes how crazy and dramatic I am, and I need a familiar face to come home to me. 

With my new job, I met this trans man (means he's biologically a female, but is a man) who is everything I loved about my last boyfriend (may he rest in peace), but is also somebody who literally completes me.  He has made me realize that life is worth living again. 

After only a few dates, he told me he'd never met a man who made him actually feel love.  As in the complete package of caring, lust and friendship.  So with an impromptu proposal, we are set to wed.

Of course, this means I'll be moving back to my natural homeland and changing jobs again, but that's okay.  I was looking towards doing that again anyways.  Too soon?  Nah!  I don't think so.  I've let two get away... I won't make that mistake again.

simian simian
26-30, M
1 Response Feb 19, 2009

Good for you! It is nice and refreshing to hear the happiness that spreads when love is in their life. It is hard at times, especially with an alternative life style, but you cannot choose who you fall in love with. You should be, and seem happy and that is all that matter. Let it flow. Life is to short and you need to follow your heart in whatever it is. If you are going to dream, Dream Big. <br />
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Steph