Does He Really Miss Me ?

I didn't hear from him Monday but last night he called he seemed a bit distant he said he already really misses me and that's why he called. He sounded different on phone tired maybe idk hope he isn't hiding something. He did his usual picking on me and telling his friends was funny though. He said he had day of shots.. I tried talking about it or something's off topic and he didn't say anything .. He didn't sound like his usual self and I told him I really miss him and love him and well get through this I think he just said yeah. They changed his basic day so he In reception and i said i prob won't hear from him for few week so please write I said promise he's like yeah he asked if I was ok sounded like I was crying I said no I. Fine he said I really sounded like it i said no I'm fine really was about to just tried hideit I asked if he was ok cause he didn't seem it he said yeah I'm fine lights out in 30 and I got stuff I have go to do I just really missed you and wanted call you see how you are and tell you I miss you but I better go I said ok good luck miss you he did miss you too I said loveyou I got muffled love you too maybe cus of no privacy he didn't really wanna say it and the we got off phone . He didnt sound like his usual self is never called befor because he really missed me idk if being away changed him or he's hiding something I am tired and probably over thinking things bad dreams dont help. I hope he really does miss me anyways have any of you felt this way or had something similar happn?
Anilec Anilec
18-21, F
4 Responses May 9, 2012

Yea I'm very sure he misses you too, he's just probably trying to cope and take it all in in if you know what I mean ? Its a new setting, new people, and new environment it kinda throws you for a loop, cause I know it would. Eventually he'll get use to things and be back to his regular self. Just write him everyday it helps alot during basic, when is his graduation ?

thanks. but for him to call just to say he really misses me isnt like him. he starts basic this week he still in reception. um i think he graduates sometime in july..and then AIT

Yea I understand that too, just be strong love !! I promise when he gets to AIT it will become alittle bit better :)

I was going through d same thing till the time he called me today. It was an unexpected call for just 5 minutes but all my tensions went off.... It happens n after reading ur story...i m sure that there z nothing wrong....its all because of stress.... Everything will b fine once he is back....... Staying positive is d only remedy.....just trust him n ur relationship...take care :)

Thank you! Ima keep being strong n supporting him I got long ways to go

I was one close to tears. My man never cries he just didn't sound his self n said over over he already really does miss me. Were so far apart I miss him I prob am over thinking it. He couldn't promise wed stay together but I hope he does miss me I try to be positive thankyou!

I'm sure he misses you, he was probably trying not to cry infront of people which was why he sounded so distant i know my man does that. It breaks your heart and makes you wonder but wondering can only lead to bad things. Gotta stay positive :)