Help, What Should I Do?

I am in a steady relationship but I have recently met someone else at work and we have a real connection. He makes me laugh, we share the same tastes in music and books and he is clever and interesting. I can't stop thinking about him, I don't have his phone number or anything but I am leaving my job soon and I don't want to break contact with him. I know its a bad idea to stay in touch because I will end up falling for him completely but I don't want to lose his friendship. I don't understand why I feel like this because I love my boyfriend very much. What should I do?

slythecat slythecat
26-30, F
3 Responses Feb 26, 2010

I'm sorry to say Hun this isn't twilight You need torealize if you are able to FEEL OR FALL IN LOVE WITH ANOTHER PERSON then you are not in love with the one u think. Weight out the Pro and Cons of things! does the one you love now make you laugh does he still listen and do you still get that funny feeling in you tummy when he comes around? If not think about it Do whats right the heart will guide you!

If you love your boyfriend and you want to stay with him, then you should break off contact with the other guy. No need to bring temptation into your life when you know it is possible.

The heart wants what the heart wants.