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I Am Fascinated By Human Behavior

More Than What Is Offered ?

By: ladyryan
Written on June 16th, 2012
By: ladyryan
Age: 41-45 , Female
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    NeoZen

    I am following your thoughts on this yet I think you are being too narrow minded. Not saying you yourself are narrow minded, but you are seeing things in their little boxes. Your words wrap up ******, ****, ***** into one simple explanation which wants to describe one thing. To place my different things into one single box to explain away and justify the common negative reaction to the connotation those words bring. I might instead challenge you to take time to consider. What is the difference between a **** and a *****? Think on that, they really are two very different things. What is the difference between those and a *****? How do they overlap? What defines a lady? Where does that overlap? People are very complex beings, and while one said label might describe one aspect of who we are, we do not fit into neat little labels.

    Jun 22, 2012
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      ladyryan

      I am not judging or even defending myself. Just look at the things around you. Why do they have to degrade themselves, and why there are few women who despise this kind of women taking pride of calling themselves *****, ***** whatever. To have the attention they need. And I said would it be bacause they have their desire hidden in their fantasy or is that they really want to be as one, degraded to be one **** or ***** or ******. Who knows? That is not being narrow minded. Actually I accept opinion based on the obvious intention, arrogance won't let me accept your intelligence. To top it all calling me narrow minded twice. I am so impressed. Maybe you are God. I am not stating any conclusion but an observation based on facts here. Before calling on someone narrow minded twice you can explain yourself first. Because I think I have given you an assignment to think for yourself and seems you have feeded on someone else's ideas. Now get your story. Anyone is entitled to give their opinion on how they observe things. If you need your opinion heard, don't barrage me with questions. EP has provided you space for your story.

      Jun 22, 2012
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      NeoZen

      Very well said and I agree with you to some extent. You are obviously not stupid or ignorant to which the term is narrow minded is often implied. This was not was not my intent, just stating that the vision you hold is. Now it is true, many women as well as a few men that degrade them self by any means are simply attention seekers and nothing more. And when this is the case it is quite obvious to the flocking effect they generate to which they are perceived as being popular. While this holds true for the majority, one can not state that this is the only cause or reasoning for the whole. My argument being that any descriptor being of good or bad connotation is an attribute. Any attribute can be wielded to gain strength and power, though note I am not implying good or bad, simply power itself. So let us take your basic example, say a woman with a high labito has a learned response that flaunting this brings the power to attract men. From the inside power always seems good to yourself regardless of it is or not. Now let us take the same woman who stops a moment and recognizes this and wants something more, to actually better herself? While she might change her attitude, her morals, her labito is a part of her she can not change. She can either stifle it, which almost always turns to self harm, or she can learn to embrace it, make peace with it, redirect it. These kinds of things I have seen in my life, they are rare, they are cherished.

      Jun 22, 2012
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      ladyryan

      WOW and you are a male! I thought you were a female. Well you should know better how to approach someone with your argument. Someone might be having a bad day. LOL! Anyways, I like how you made your point/ explanations. I also believe they wanted respect, to be treated more than what surfaces from the inside. If you can only read post again, it all arrive to the same conclusion. But I like how you explained them. I'm all sincere to my words. I do not degrade them, nevertheless I try to understand the core of them, the feelings. I might have that same feeling/desire also. Yet who knows ? Have a nice weekend!

      Jun 22, 2012
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    Duchessforthright

    Yes, who knows. Very good read Ladyryan. Thank you;)

    Jun 20, 2012
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      ladyryan

      Duchessforthright, you are also a very good read ! Thank you.

      Jun 21, 2012
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    uncfred

    Its all down to men honey. We take advantage, degrade, use, abuse, etc. Some women grow up with that backgound. Take them away from it and most will see that they are worth much much more. The rest, bless em, will just enjoy whatever turns them (or their men) on.

    Jun 17, 2012
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      ladyryan

      Thanks for the input Fred. I also believe there is more than what can be seen from it's surface. But it just goes on and on with the human race, and as you said whatever turns them on.

      Jun 17, 2012
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    leantannedguy

    well...you are a deep thinker and I think you are onto something. They are attractive and if your words to them stroke their inner needs enough a guy can receive more than he ever anticipated...I met a few of these I woman and while they are fun for awhile we tire of each other. Intelligent women provide much more than polished technique when they make love.

    Jun 17, 2012
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      ladyryan

      True to your words. Intelligence can't be hidden down no matter how. Standards would surface to meet one's passions and desires. Intelligent men are also amongst the choice of women ( I think) who create fantasy.

      Jun 17, 2012
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