i would like to understand why, when things are going good, i an still be sad. Why is it once trust is broken it's impossible to build it back up. Is forgiving someone even possible?
soatig soatig
41-45, F
2 Responses Aug 16, 2014

Forgiveness is one thing. Go ahead & forgive. But that's no silver bullet to fix your feelings or your trust issues. It may help, but you might bear the scars the rest of your life. Those scars are what mellows us, causes us to think twice the next time (fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice shame on me; once shot, twice shy). I'm not saying you may never heal. But you may never be what you were before. C'est la vie

Life is to short for what ifs you need to live every day as if it was your last with no regrets some are not that lucky to have that ability so grab it with both hands and enjoy what you can and trust comes with respect