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I Am Fat and Hate Myself

Done With Fat

By: PurpleLady23
Written on May 2nd, 2012
Age: 18-21 , Female
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    Marzbloxx

    Hi I'd like to help u when will u be online?

    Nov 26, 2012
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    pgreenshield

    That is wrong. Your husband is confused. You are the same beautiful woman he fell in love with. When will these TV dreamers stop living in fantasy land and learn that love and beauty is a lot more than size.



    Would you be offended if I tried to help you? I know a product that works like a charm. It is called ASAP. I can provide it and it will allow you to lose weight the natural way. All you do is put 3 drops under your tongue and you will lose about one pound per day without even trying. What it does is program the body to burn fat first. Check out my blog and allow me to provide you this great and all natural product. stroke-recover.blogspot.com . Cheers

    Sep 1, 2012
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    Yamiraq1984

    I've been married for 5yrs & sometimes I feel like my husband doesn't find me attractive, but I've come to realize that those are my own inscure thoughts.

    I know how you feel. Something that has helped me.... Is go on a "blind date" (with ur husband) meet up so where new/different. Go all out like it was the first date. Put on your best outfit, get new undies :)

    And above all talk to your guy. Sometimes they don't understand how they makes us feel, so you might have to be blunt. But enjoy yourself and you will see that you are SEXY & your guy will see it too!

    Jul 25, 2012
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    TheDominantDude

    Hun, if HE can't appreciate you, then HE is NOT worth YOUR TIME!!! It's one thing if you want to lose weight because you want to be healthy, but it's another if you're trying to lose weight because you want to be "sexy" for him. Because fact of the matter is, ACTIONS SPEAK WAY LOUDER THAN WORDS EVER COULD. If he's no longer attracted to you because of your weight, and YOU see nothing wrong, so what?!?!?! If HE refuses to change, then WHY SHOULD YOU?!?!?!

    Jul 11, 2012
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    masalahw

    hey good looking ...its the same mistake I encountered but i got this out of my way by doing a little self examination.

    1. do you love yourself...if you don,t then how will others love it.



    2. simple way to check if your are over weight.



    3. stand nude in front off a mirror...full length.



    4. stand straight...and without bending your back look down between your boobs.



    5. If you see your burning bush you are doing great if you cannot its time to reduce.



    6. if you are clean shave place a band aid and check if you see it.



    7. the best way to start to reduce is drink plenty of natural water and a glass of warm water after meals.



    8. CUT OUT SALT/SUGAR....reduce to 5% and below SODIUM on snack labels.



    9. NO WHITE on RED meat...there should be only red/pink NO WHITE....avoid burgers of minced beef as they contain a lot of white fat



    10. most important...the size of your heart is equal to the size of your palm...will a small engine in a car able to carry HEAVY LOADS.....



    THINK THINK THINK....and live

    May 13, 2012
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    PurpleLady23

    no he never said it specifically but what else can it be? he says i'm beautiful in my mind and personality but i don't want to be beautiful i want to be sexy dang it! i will try the hair and makeup thing because i have cut back on that since we got married some, not as much as he has though. it really makes me mad. all he does is eat a ton and barely shaves, brushes his hair, or gets out of sweat pants. yet i'm the one that isn't attractive. :( i really wish he could look in the mirror before criticizing me.

    May 3, 2012
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      tigerlilyxo

      This is what dudes don't get! They can slouch around, and make no attempt at looking good around the house, but when we do the sane were not "trying" or blahblah. This is the real world I think alot of the media of how "women "and should be and act all the time adds to their opinions too. Im not gunna look like a bombshell while folding your laundry, you know? Let me know how the makeup/hair/sexy outfit goes. :D

      May 5, 2012
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      PurpleLady23

      the hair and outfit failed. i dont know what happened with him yesterday though. i came home from work covered in fryer grease (i work in a deli) and it was like nothing ever happened. we are close again and rebuilding. he told me that he didn't mean that i was unattractive, just that some other women are more attractive. He told me that i am beautiful and he loves being with me. i think he was just upset the other day when he said this. we where arguing at the time.

      May 5, 2012
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      PurpleLady23

      said the unattracted stuff i mean. lol

      May 5, 2012
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    tigerlilyxo

    Purple, I can relate to how frustrating this may be. I also realize how hard it must be to hear that come out of your husbands mouth, I've always thought my boyfriend may feel the same way, but I would feel very down getting the confirmation from his mouth. Has he said it was your weight that made him less attracted to you? Remember that you are beautiful! Get a sexy outfit, do your hair and makeup one day and make him drool. If he trys to move in on you deny him! He should realize what he has, and there are alot of men in the world that would be grateful to have you.

    May 3, 2012
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