Second Wifey to Be

in a bad mood, so this is gonna be blunt.  dont care if no one ever bloody reads this.... just sooooooooooo pissed off needed somewhere to vent my frustration.  sick of his kids... sick of child support payments... sick of them taking up our time, sick of his ex wife, sick of being second to ever have children with, sick of being second wife (to be) sick of everything that comes attached to your fiance being married before with three kids.... sick of no one, i mean no one understanding.

victoria271 victoria271
22-25, F
4 Responses Apr 20, 2007

Hang in there, I am in the same boat - my other half has 2 kids and spends alot of time at his ex's with his kids, in fact that is where he is now as it's fathers day and his son's birthday party. Plus we have the kids every other weekend, we only get 1 weekend in 4 together.

I'm a member of the second wives' club too. It can be frustrating, fruitless and thankless and I wish I had something thoughtful and optimistic to say, but I'm still trying to figure it out for myself as well. Hang in there!

WOW, sounds like you had a BAD day or at least i hope your feelings just stated are just that, based on a bad day. If these feelings occur on a regular basis perhaps you should do yourself and your fiance and MOST importantly the children a favour and get out before it gets ugly!!

wow - do all 2nd wives feel this way? Makes me wonder about mine....