I Am Fed Up With My Boyfriends Mom
Im 17 and I have been in an relationship with my boyfriend who is 19 since I was 15 years old. I met him at a local Deaf Centre on a typical Wednesday night where I started the youth program to create Deaf awareness to hearing teens. I met 'The Parents', his mother casually looked me up and down and said what's your name I replied politely and she nodded and carried on watching her soap operas. Two minutes later she told me to sit down which I did, she then asked me where I were from, if I went to school, did I live with my parents and if my parents were separated. My Boyfriend then asked me if I would like to watch a film which I agreed to very quickly for the fact I felt uncomfortable around his mother, she sounded very strict and arrogant. I went upstairs with him to watch a film where we kissed and we had a long conversation, he asked me did I like him and if I were interested in a relationship. We split after a couple of weeks for the fact of our age difference and my school work but continued as friends I went to his house alot to hang out and we did things like go the park have cheeky little kisses, then just before I turned 16 he confessed he loved me, a month after my 16th we were in a relationship again and were generally happy till I found a couple of inbox's on his Facebook telling girls he were single and they were nice looking so I confronted him and asked what the hell and he apologised and he promises he wouldn't do it again. I started doing things for him, I learned Sign Language for him (as he is profoundly Deaf) and began to interpret for him at work, at the bank, tax credit office, shops, restaurants, technically all sorts and staying in his house alot I tidied up after him too, but we argued alot and got jealous of each other easily. One day we were arguing and he went straight home and told his mum everything as she had always spoiled him because of his disability and done everything for him. this is where she started getting involved. She would call me ranting and raving how I wasn't good enough for her son and when he was due for a day out with me she'd find an event or something that all his single friends were going to and would tell him it'd be better than staying with me as he sees me most of the time and she would drive him far distances and pay for things too. He would sit back and listen and he'd do as he were told so he wouldn't
disappoint her. This is were my trust fell apart. He couldn't control himself when he drinks alcohol as he cannot handle it, and 6 months ago she drove him to his friends house where his Ex girlfriend of 3 years was to have a drink and he kissed her. He didn't tell me until I found the pictures on his mobile and he later told me it was his mum who drove him there in the first place. I broke down and ever since I had trust issues with him we argued more and she used it to stick her nose in, she called me for everything, his father also told him I was a controlling B**** and they hated me, I kept seeing him because I love him. Then Valentines day just gone we went to the pub for a drink with my Gay friend Paul who we were trying to cheer up for splitting with his boyfriend and my boyfriend drank four Jack Daniels and coke and supposedly got spiked as he couldn't walk. All of a sudden he ran towards my estate which is not far from the pub which is my local, he knocked at the door and told my mum I had been arrested with Paul who had previously gone home, that's when I emerged from the corner and we tried to call him a taxi but he refused to get in it. He kissed me said he loved me and ran off down the road as he jogs alot I thought nothing of it so I went to bed. Somewhat of 30 minutes later, my dog was barking really loud and my mother heard the back door handle being checked she looked out the window and no one was there so she stoop at the top of the stairs with her hand on her hip. Then suddenly there was a crash in the back garden my mum opened the bedroom window and he was standing on top of the bin knocking on my sisters bedroom window she told him to get down and he fell flat on his face which made him angry. She phoned the police to remove him as its not the first time it has happened. He started to head butt the kitchen window, then he elbowed it and then with one big punch he put his hand right through the double glazed window his eyes red raw, blood was squirting all over my kitchen he had ripped the flesh off his left hand and sliced right through it to the other side he was screaming my name and in shock, crying my mum slammed the kitchen door shut I screamed ran to the dining room grabbed a towel and ran in the kitchen not thinking in bare feet slicing my feet as I ran through the kitchen I plummeted the towel in cold water and as I went to wrap it around his injury the police grabbed him by his shoulders. My mother called his mum to let her know what had happened and she just sighed and put the phone down on her, she then text me asking for the address and told me to get some sleep as its nothing to do with me its her son. The ambulance followed and he was taken to hospital. The next day I went to visit him and I asked him alot of questions, it was bizarre as he didn't remember nothing he woke up in hospital asking for me and why was his mum at his bed side. Two days ago he was arrested and had to sign papers saying he smashed the window but received no charge as my mother dropped them. His mother then interpreted to him that if he speaks to me again or see's me the police said he would be arrested. I spoke to the police officer who was supposedly had said this were he explained he advised us not to associate with each but if we did there was nothing that could be done about it. He doesn't know who to believe and he loves me so he has still been seeing me but she bought him a new phone and a new sim card, told him I couldn't have the number, he told me she calls me evil and a B****. She texts him 24/7 asking him where he is, he has to ask to go the shop at half 8, she controls his money and his DLA(Disability money), she opens his letters, go's through his room, go's through his phone, she drops him off at places to make sure he's there, she tells him how to dress, how to have his hair, he's 19 and he has to be in the house for 11 o'clock. This woman is torturing my life and I need advice. Any views and advice would be very much appreciated..
Thank You.
disappoint her. This is were my trust fell apart. He couldn't control himself when he drinks alcohol as he cannot handle it, and 6 months ago she drove him to his friends house where his Ex girlfriend of 3 years was to have a drink and he kissed her. He didn't tell me until I found the pictures on his mobile and he later told me it was his mum who drove him there in the first place. I broke down and ever since I had trust issues with him we argued more and she used it to stick her nose in, she called me for everything, his father also told him I was a controlling B**** and they hated me, I kept seeing him because I love him. Then Valentines day just gone we went to the pub for a drink with my Gay friend Paul who we were trying to cheer up for splitting with his boyfriend and my boyfriend drank four Jack Daniels and coke and supposedly got spiked as he couldn't walk. All of a sudden he ran towards my estate which is not far from the pub which is my local, he knocked at the door and told my mum I had been arrested with Paul who had previously gone home, that's when I emerged from the corner and we tried to call him a taxi but he refused to get in it. He kissed me said he loved me and ran off down the road as he jogs alot I thought nothing of it so I went to bed. Somewhat of 30 minutes later, my dog was barking really loud and my mother heard the back door handle being checked she looked out the window and no one was there so she stoop at the top of the stairs with her hand on her hip. Then suddenly there was a crash in the back garden my mum opened the bedroom window and he was standing on top of the bin knocking on my sisters bedroom window she told him to get down and he fell flat on his face which made him angry. She phoned the police to remove him as its not the first time it has happened. He started to head butt the kitchen window, then he elbowed it and then with one big punch he put his hand right through the double glazed window his eyes red raw, blood was squirting all over my kitchen he had ripped the flesh off his left hand and sliced right through it to the other side he was screaming my name and in shock, crying my mum slammed the kitchen door shut I screamed ran to the dining room grabbed a towel and ran in the kitchen not thinking in bare feet slicing my feet as I ran through the kitchen I plummeted the towel in cold water and as I went to wrap it around his injury the police grabbed him by his shoulders. My mother called his mum to let her know what had happened and she just sighed and put the phone down on her, she then text me asking for the address and told me to get some sleep as its nothing to do with me its her son. The ambulance followed and he was taken to hospital. The next day I went to visit him and I asked him alot of questions, it was bizarre as he didn't remember nothing he woke up in hospital asking for me and why was his mum at his bed side. Two days ago he was arrested and had to sign papers saying he smashed the window but received no charge as my mother dropped them. His mother then interpreted to him that if he speaks to me again or see's me the police said he would be arrested. I spoke to the police officer who was supposedly had said this were he explained he advised us not to associate with each but if we did there was nothing that could be done about it. He doesn't know who to believe and he loves me so he has still been seeing me but she bought him a new phone and a new sim card, told him I couldn't have the number, he told me she calls me evil and a B****. She texts him 24/7 asking him where he is, he has to ask to go the shop at half 8, she controls his money and his DLA(Disability money), she opens his letters, go's through his room, go's through his phone, she drops him off at places to make sure he's there, she tells him how to dress, how to have his hair, he's 19 and he has to be in the house for 11 o'clock. This woman is torturing my life and I need advice. Any views and advice would be very much appreciated..
Thank You.
By:
PaigeESCarter
Age:
16-17
,
Female
