I Am Heartbroken..

Yesterday my girlfriend and best friend of almost two years broke up with me suddenly. She says she has been feeling miserable for a bit of time and just can't do it anymore. I am speechless. I feel like my heart and stomach are eating me alive, I have never felt like this in my life. Everything that happens or someone says relates to her in some way and it suddenly just makes me sad every time I think of her. I spilled my feelings out over text messages/Facebook messages yesterday and she messaged me this morning asking for some time before she talks to me. I just don't know what to do in a situation like this. I told her I would give her time and that I love her so much. She keeps saying she loves me and she's sorry. I just don't know how someone could love you but stomp on your heart. Never in a million years would I just randomly leave her. I love her with all my heart and would do anything in the world for her. We were just fine 2 days ago then yesterday she breaks up with me. I'm so lost and confused, I feel like I've been punched in my stomach a million times.
Her last message to me said " i need some time before I can talk about this. I do love you so much and I feel awful for doing this to you. I will talk to you about this but I need some time before I can. please just give me some time before I talk to you. "
I replied with "I'll give you your time, I love you. I'm so sorry. "
We're each others first loves. She's 18, I'm 20.
Her reason for breaking up with me was because she just needs to be herself and I was too controlling at some points.
I always did everything for the good of her. When I met her, I got her off of smoking marijuana and drinking so heavily at the age of 16. I just tried to do everything in my power to make sure she was okay. I just feel like if we never get back together, my life is never going to be the same again. Every day I was off school or work, I always was with her and hanging out with her. She was truly my best friend. I never treated her bad, I never hit her. I had my flaws just like any other person.
I don't know what to do.
hurtingbad32 hurtingbad32 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 11, 2011

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hey hurtingbad,

my story is some what same as yours.

in a relationship its not always both the partners have the same intensity for each other..

you are very certain dat u want her but she myt be confused.she myt wanna do some stuff which u stop her from doing..

women might be the most possessive species on earth but they dont like wen men get possessive..

give it time and dont think too much about it....prioritise yourself...

i am sure she will realise u are the best for her and if she doesnt let her go...shes the loser not u..u gave ur best..