Why Do You Do This To Me?

Hi there. I know how you are feeling and I know that this is very hard. Seven months ago my boyfriend also broke up with me. He said to me that he still loves me but he cant commit. He wanted his freedom. We are still friends and we still see each other every week. It is hard to know that he is seeing other girls. I know that the best thing for us to do is to move on. We must realize that there is so much more to live for. We are wonderful, beautiful people. There are so much more to life for than our ex boyfriends. They moved on, and that is what we also need to do. If we are meant for each other they will come back to us. We must let them realize what they lost. Show him that you can carry on without him. Go out with your friends and get involved in new things. Start doing something new and exciting. Join a fitness class or start a new hobby where you can meet new people. This thing that you are going through will only make you stronger. Write down in a diary how you are feeling. Then you can look back at it later on. You can also read it again, when later in live you are going through a break up again. Talk to someone. Just hold on. It will get better. Believe me. It is still hard, but at least I can sleep and eat again. And I don't feel like crying anymore. Good luck.