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I Should Come With A Warning Sign...

Yes, I am feisty.
There is absolutely no doubt about it.
I am playful, like to joke, tease, be sarcastic, etc. I am sassy.
I do not like to be serious, take myself seriously...I would much rather be lighthearted, good humored and have fun.
I am never intending it to hurt others or insult them, but I guess some people can occasionally take it that way.

For example, I had one person tell me I have "trenchant wit."

I can't argue with that. I do, sometimes. But it is almost always in good, innocent fun. But it also means that I don't just easily take crap from people, I can bite back. I don't let people walk all over me either.

I love that I am feisty. I love that character trait in myself and wouldn't change it for anything.


FEISTY - full of animation, energy, or courage; spirited; spunky; plucky: lively, resilient, and self-reliant




ItsJustMe888 ItsJustMe888 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 13, 2012

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Feisty is fine if it's coupled with fun, but it iftens gets confused initially with arrogance. My wife's bff battles with this distinction often

Really? I have never had anyone tell me I am arrogant or close to it. Most people who know me, even a little, know I am always joking around and playful.

I think if anyone does think that, it is because they just don't know me well enough orrr our personalities are drastically different as far as our sense of humor.

I found when she initially meets, she overwhelms the discussion with her wit and humor, to impress and it being Trenchant, she is perceived as threatening

Hmm...I don't think I do that...but short of it being a serious topic/conversation, I just don't think things too seriously. I like laughing and making others laugh, but do not think I go about it as a way to impress anyone.

Can you give me some examples of things she has said?

It's the banter...but it heads towards "guys find me attractive becos of the way I dress" being said in jest whilst a nice pair of legs become more visible

****** off the other women...but not me *wink*


I am NOTHING like that.
What she is doing is bragging about herself and trying to make herself look good to others, even if it ****** off the women.

I wouldn't even find that feisty or humorous. More as she is full of herself. There is quite the difference.

Poor example I admit but these are the ones that stick in my memory

Well, don't judge us all by this chick. Jeeze, she gives true feisty women a bad rap, least to you!

Yes she does, I'm now left wondering what a true feisty woman does differently

Not act like they are God's gift to men, for starters. You can be feisty without being full of yourself.

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trenchant. A new word to add to my vocabulary.

Cheers to you C, raising my glass high as well!

Raise your glass to the feisty women of the world!! We are AWESOME!!

Yes, we are. Often misunderstood, hard to handle, but we are definitely worth it!

But well worth it....finish your sentence. lol

Oh yes, nothing worth having comes easily. ;)