BFF ???

My friend who I have known since we were 14 and I are really close, but now she has blocked me and might never talk to me again.. Maybe I can get some feedback from here...

So a couple of Friday nights ago I was on my way to bed and she phones me drunk, and she is with 2 other friends of hers..she has just gotten a 24 hour and she is about 30 miles away..(which isn't the point)..But anyway, she wants me to drive out there and drive her and her friends to another party...even farther away..not even in our town. I tried to tell her that I didn't want to be her chouffer tonight and I was tired etc... She starts getting angry and wondering if I am babysitting or what..also that she will give me gas money etc... Again..not the point.. I told her to call a cab and she starts to yell at me about her 24 hour suspension so I, in turn yelled louder that it wasn't my problem... So... I then got the guilt treatment..you know...thanks a lot, nice friend you are etc, etc.. so I hung up on her...

I called her the next day and tried to explain that I would have driven further if it was an emergency or if she needed a ride home etc, but not to drive her around to other parties.. Babysitting 3 drunk people when I am tired and stressed isn't my idea of fun, besides, my car is a piece of crap, and I might not even have made it that far...  This was all on her answering machine anyway and she won't talk to me... she says she has nothing good to say to me, so I guess that's that... almost a 30 year friendship over...

So was I in the wrong?... Nobody I have talked to yet seems to think so except her... but she always has been right anyway.....

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1 Response Feb 13, 2009

how's your relationship with her now? i'm curious... going through a similar situation