My daughter is a 27 year old mother herself. She has 3 young kids. She has egnored me on Mothers Day ever since High School. I thought once she became a mother that would change, but it has NOT. She does this deliberatly. She know how much it hurts. When she got this new boyfriend, the invited me out to dinner on a mothers day, I was so happy, I nearly cried all day for job. But then I found out it was the boyfriends idea to take me out. And it was just that one time. After that I found she was bad mouthing me on Facebook, and I was paying for it and I bought the computer. So I shut it down, So now we are back to being egnored on Mothers Day again. But I could not put up with that behavior. I know Tateanator, how much it hurts, I really do, but there is really nothing we can do about it. My friends keep saying she wil come around. Well, gee do I have to wait till she is 30 or 40 yrs old? Now another Mothers Day is coming up and I am starting to get stressed again. They said they would join us for Easter, but I have not heard from them in a week, so I am not really sure if they are going to show up or not. My daughter is my life. She always got wonderful birthday parties and I spoiled her. But I am lucky if I get anything for my birthday either. God it hurts, how can a grown mother treat her mother like this? So what should we do?